Don't Despair, Happiness Can Again Replace This Pain

                                                                 When you were born,you were in your original & pure form, as you had started a new journey.During this journey you took certain actions which affected your personality.There were certain influences, which were positive but there were negative influences as well.

The positive influences were in line with the universal eternal truths and helped in creating & reinforcing your happy disposition, marked with optimism, creativity,hope,love, humility & gratitude, towards life.Where as negative influences though looked very attractive externally, but when imbibed led towards despondency, hatred, depression,anxiety,anger,rage,melancholy & anything but happiness.Thus you grew up as a mix of positive & negative influences,the ratio in which we experience happiness or otherwise depends on our predisposition created with this mix.If there is a dominance of positive influences in your life you will seem to be happy in a proportion higher than that of the state marked by the absence of happiness.

The way out, is by 

• Identifying & diluting/removing the impact of negative influences from your life and
• Identifying & building/ the reservoir of positive influences in your life

As a child you observed a lot of action happening around you , you picked certain role models and started identifying with them by emulating these models.The important aspects of negative influences are that

• They look very attractive when you observe them, 
• They provide great pleasure , when you experience them the first time 
• From second experience onward the pleasure drawn keeps on reducing
• Towards the continuum the pleasure becomes zero at a point 
• There after the same experience starts giving pain and 
• The pain keeps on increasing with each experience  

Until you realize that the experience which used to give pleasure has suddenly started giving pain,but the transition from pleasure to pain is not sudden, but we observed it only once we felt that the same experience is no longer providing the joy which you used to enjoy earlier but on the contrary there is a feeling of pain  and this pain is eating out the space to be occupied with happiness.The happiness can again replace this pain if we start building the reservoir of positive influences by living our lives based on the universal eternal truths.

Don't despair, it is possible to achieve happiness but this will call for an open mind, a disciplined approach towards self analysis and a meticulous execution at the level of personal self.

      

God bless

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