Achieve Your Goals

Believe In Yourself

Sanjay V Sharma

Secret of Success

                               Propel Yourself Towards Your Goals

Sanjay V Sharma

Key to Your Success

Be On Your Toes To Navigate Towards Your Goal

Harness the Power of Your Mind

Going out and taking action is the essence of success. How your mind works is amazing.There cannot be a better friend if you have learnt to harness the power of your mind and there can be no better enemy than your own mind if you have not learnt this art. Just by making a small shift in your thinking you can make a significant difference in your effectiveness at anything that you might  focus on.

Propel Yourself Towards Your Goals

It is all about the present position taken by you in your mind to focus on a future goal. Just by changing one underlying assumption you can probably reach the belief to propel you even towards the most challenging goals. But you must be on your toes to navigate your way towards your goal. Before any reasonable accomplishment happens on the ground it must first happen in your mind. The challenge is to manage the way you perceive the events around you. You must train your mind to interpret your experiences, even failures, as the stepping stones to even the most distant and difficult goals.

Sanjay V Sharma

Good Morning - Never Judge Others

Why Are You Not Getting The Results That You Want?

The biggest challenges around you are a result of the yawning gap between your results and your expectations.Why people fail to achieve what they had initially set out to accomplish? There may be a variety of reasons but the solution lies in these three simple steps 

Increase the Probability of Identifying Your Purpose In Life By Clarifying Your Values

Identify Your Values

When you know your true constitution and what is really important to you in life, then the decisions to set your goals get simplified. The accuracy to which you define your values , would also increase the probability of you identifying your purpose in life thereby ensuring that you lead a very happy and fulfilled life 

Know What Is Important To You and  Set Out To Accomplish It

Align Your Goals With Your Values

When you have the awareness of what is important to you , it is quite natural that you would logically set out to accomplish it. Therefore before you set your goals it is absolutely critical to identify your values and ensure that there is alignment between the two. Because if there is mismatch between your values and goals then any effort to accomplish will be an exercise in futility

Take Charge Of Your Life , Start Living Your Values To Achieve Your Goals

Align Your Behavior With Your Goals and Values

The importance of aligning your behavior to your goals and values, cannot be over emphasized, in a sincere attempt towards being successful. Because if you have not clearly identified your values any amount of scientific goal setting would be of no recourse just like a ship with out sailboard cannot be propelled into the ocean.And even if the sailboard is functional on the ship but the sailor doesn't know the desired destination then the sailor would not know the correct direction to the destination and would eventually fail to adjust the sail against the wind leading to undesired results.

Take charge of your life, identify your values, validate you goals with your values and start with the habit of living your values to achieve your goals.

Sanjay V Sharma

Keep Yourself Focused On Your Goals

It takes courage of conviction to focus on your goals even under most trying circumstances

 You Don't Need To Apply Rocket Science 

Never judge others because when you indulge yourself in judging others, your focus gets diverted from your goals.It is like driving your car at the top speed with your eyes off the road, and you do not need to apply the rocket science for knowing the consequences of such behavior.

Burning Desire To Achieve Keeps You Focused

It takes courage of conviction to desist from such acts but more than anything else it is the burning desire to achieve your goals that helps you keep yourself focused on your goals even under most trying circumstances.

Sanjay V Sharma

Calm Posture – A Divine Virtue

This Divine Virtue Leads to Manifesting Other Divine Virtues

You realize the importance of a calm posture better, when you experience a situation marked by its absence in your persona. When you are devoid of this grace, you tend to lose sight of your goals, purpose, values, and priorities in your life. The absence of this divine virtue drags you into


  unnecessary exchanges with others and you generally end up in the middle of great unanticipated problems by distorting your logical frame of reference through a biased paradigm shift at your subconscious level, without your realizing that all this is actually happening with you. In other words the modes of ignorance and/or passion cast their spell on you, as soon as you step out of the realms of this or any other divine virtue, and you get carried away by the illusion called Maya. The presence of this divine virtue plays a very critical role in keeping you on the right track thereby creating an environment conducive to the manifestation of all other divine virtues   responsible for your holistic growth towards realizing the potential of being at your best.

Compromising on Divine Virtues Trigger a Cascade of Further Compromises

Consider a situation where you experience anxiety or fear, this is the time when you lose your calm , now whatever decisions you take will not be based on the solid background of eternal universal truths but will be guided by the motive of overcoming the anxiety or fear prevailing at that point in time. The similar understanding can be developed for the other divine virtues as well. It is worth noting that any compromise on even one divine virtue can push you into a cascade of events resulting in situations where further compromises on other divine virtues are triggered without much effort on your part.

Why Crimes Happen In Our Society?

Consider a situation where you had some argument with your spouse or friend before you moved out in your car, if you get affected by this and carry the disturbing negativity of the resultant frustration and anger with you, there is a very high possibility that even the slightest provocation by any person, event or situation will make you reactby exhibiting the same behavior of frustration and anger. This is the major reason why most of the crimes happen in our society. When we compromise on the divine virtues we unconsciously let the ignorance and/or passion take control of our beings and we begin to slide on the downward spiral of anger, lust, greed, frustration, jealousy, fear hatred, enmity, etc.  On the contrary when we block the access of ignorance and passion, by following divine virtues in totality by forming the habit of living by these divine virtues, we not only maintain our calm but also pave way to a more significant, vibrant, fulfilling & happy life.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Don't Wait For The Skies To Fall - Sky May Never Fall But You Can

A New Paradigm

There is a saying that,"Bad habits are easy to form but difficult to break.” Whether this is true or not, depends upon what do we like to choose. We need to rewrite this old adage with a new paradigm, to be read as,"Bad habits are difficult to form but easy to break".  

Factors Leading to this Paradigm Shift

1.     Nothing is more powerful than an idea whose time has come;

Let's look at the factors which make this paradigm shift possible, but before doing this, it is only natural to make a note of the turn of events in the last century. We crawled from agriculture age to information age. It does not mean that technology & information exchange could have not thrived in the times of agriculture age, the same technology that works today could have generated the same results at that time as well, but can anybody tell why all this hi-tech revolution did not happen at the time when agriculture was supposed to be the main activity for any country to progress and register its supremacy. The answer is that there is a right time for everything, yes that is it.

2.     Now it is possible to improve speed of action without compromising on the  overall quality;

In the earlier times, when this adage gained ground, the world used to move at a much slower pace as compared to its speed in the present times. Today we have instant quick fix solutions, a word of caution, what we are not encouraging here is “shortcut at the cost of quality”, on the contrary what we are saying here is that, the times have changed and now it is possible to improve speed of action without compromising on the overall quality. Take different examples such as communication speed between two distant locations improved from an initial, large number of months to an instant communication through telephone and internet connectivity in the present times, travel speed also improved from the pain of travelling for months to moving between two distant destinations in a lesser number of hours, this also applies to the medical advances, astronomy, etc., and the list goes on. In a nut shell we can say that there is no activity in our lives which has not evolved to be a fast paced affair defying all time constraints which were, until some time back considered as insurmountable challenges. Today anything which can be controlled by humans, has become increasingly fast paced with blurring, and in certain cases no, time lines, making our belief as the major determinant of our present and future possibilities. If the agriculture age people had only witnessed such instantaneous actions, then they themselves would have evolved the new paradigm. 

    3.Any scientific invention that is supporting our life styles today is only a          discovery & application of very firmly established universal eternal  truths:

If we agree with this statement than it is easier for us to know that if we also discover, if we have not yet done so, & apply the universal eternal truths to our own behavior than we can get the same revolutionary results. Just to elaborate the point, all the systems such as electricity, laptop, air-travel, etc, are operational & ready just waiting for our command to activate them, because these are installed on the scientific support systems , which in turn are based on the universal eternal truths eg; property of electrons, insulators/ conductors used, and the list goes on. Similarly if we are tuned into the universal eternal truths and our behaviors are geared up to match the agility of the support systems surrounding us, there is no doubt that we will be quick to action, with good habits as well as to avoid the bad habits.

4.     Linking our present behavior to its immediate,short term, medium term and long term consequences;

We can clearly make out how far our behavior is consistent with our values, goals & purpose in life. With a robust grounding in the universal eternal truths our state of readiness will be our second nature and at that stage the new adage, "Bad habits are difficult to form but easy to break", will be only a natural extension of our genuine self.

5.     Taking out time to reflect on our lives to assess whether we are action oriented or not?

If we are action oriented, we just need to ensure that there is proper alignment with what is really important to us inlife. In case we lack action, we need to stop procrastinating and take action because delaying action is only going to get us further down the hill but the sky will retain its original position.

So take action now, only you can bring about that positive change in your life

God Bless

          Success N Synergy

Don’t Ask, Just Give Proactively – For Building Lasting Success Through Emotional Intelligence

Behavior Stemming From Heavily Saturated Frustration Levels

We see right through our lives, as well as in our day to day experiences, that most of us exhibit extremely self centered behavior in specific circumstances. Such behavior seems to stem from heavily saturated frustration levels , and has become a generally predictable outcome of behavior involving two or more people in any contentious social interaction. 

Contentious Social Interactions Where Etiquette Is Sacrificed 

Be it traffic jam on the road, competition for parking, cozy office environment requiring information exchange between colleagues, siblings competing for limited family resources, neighbors fighting over small privileges, and the list of instances goes on where etiquette is sacrificed.

Self Reflection on the Level and Quality of "Life Skills Education" Is Required 

Just a little bit of self reflection can make us aware that our unkind behavior towards others cannot get justified under the cover of our own mistakes and incorrect living. Because the problem lies with our own choice of either not getting proper education, here by education we do not mean the formal school or college education but the life skills education, where we are taught to differentiate right from the wrong, ethical from the unethical, appropriate from the inappropriate, truth from the false, etc, .Teaching us about the two extremes, as well as the infinite number of choices falling in between. What we choose depends on the level and quality of our life skills education at that point in time, or our inability to apply the learning’s of the life skills education received due to our apathy or lack of correct understanding.

Treat others in a manner in which you would like them to treat you

The need of the hour is to get thoroughly absorbed in the realization that following the prescribed etiquettes is not only the necessity but a prerequisite on which any sustainable success can be founded. We all know that for every action there is equal and opposite reaction, if we can only apply this law in our own behavior we will soon realize we have a magic wand in our hands, meaning now we can program others to respond to us in a particular way. Let us say we want a smile from others, we need to offer a smile and a smile would come back to us. When we lose our cool and get angry on others we forget this law because of which we evoke the emotions of “getting angry” in the other person, it is as simple as that. So let us follow the wisdom before we can be happy , by keeping simple things simple and not complicating them by giving others what we do not want from them or to put it right "we must take care that we give others only what we would like to get from them".

Preserve Energy to Move towards Our Respective Goals with Faster Speed

It is very true that the prescribed etiquettes & manners are the end result of a very well thought out strategy to bring peace, harmony and civility in our society and success to the individuals following them. The degree of success directly proportional to the degree to which the etiquettes & manners are correctly followed Therefore it is very important to reflect on our day to day behavior and evaluate it against the acceptable prescribed standards of etiquettes & manners in each and every social interaction we encounter for harnessing the power of correct living to achieve happiness and bliss. This will open up new relaxation zone for us, where we would not only have support in our chosen endeavor from all the quarters but will also help preserve our energy to move towards our respective goals with faster speed. 

Resolve to act now 

Let's not wait for the others to evoke any type of response from us, but must take the initiative to proactively take control of our own behavior as well as leading by example for others to emulate, for achieving happiness and fulfillment in our lives.

God Bless

Success N Synergy