The Future of Your Dreams is Your Own Duty and Responsibility

Three Steps to Peace and Happiness

For ever lasting peace and happiness, you must

1.       Take responsibility of your present because it is shaped by your own decisions and actions in the past

2.       Be focused on your duty towards each individual and the complete universe

3.       Understand that as your present depends on your past actions similarly your future depends on your

       present actions, thereby focusing on your present actions is the only way forward towards a brighter and better future of your dreams

Taking Responsibility

“When we start the practice of thinking, speaking and acting in the same line, miracles start happening.”

When you take responsibility of your present situation, you open up yourself towards new learning and self improvement, this not only opens up the world of opportunities for you but you also get focused on your strengths by getting to know what you are capable of producing. Thinking in terms of your own responsibility leads you to evaluate your

                      i.           Actions

                    ii.            Intentions

                   iii.            Feelings

                  iv.            Instincts

                    v.            Courage

                  vi.            Mentality

                 vii.            Initiative

               viii.            Self control

                  ix.            Talents

                    x.            Values

                  xi.            Purpose in life

Focus On Duty

The tendency of human mind is to hover on the expectations, on the things you want from others , what wrong others have done unto you, what promises are not fulfilled by others , and this is an endless list of the expectations you have from others. This leads you into unjustified wants and lust for things which righteously do not belong to you. When you are unable to get the possession of these things you feel angry and this ultimately leads to frustration. Most of the violence in our society is because of this lust to acquire things which do not belong to us. On the contrary when you focus on your duty you shift our attention towards your own actions and the obligations you are supposed to meet. This shift in attention not only relieves you of the undue stress created by the misguided desire to acquire the possessions rightfully belonging to others. The energy thus saved can be channelized towards accomplishment of higher order goals for uplifting the self along with the people associated with you.

A Brighter and Better Future

Consider the mental state of any person marked with the conditioning of snatching away from others their rightful belongings and if not physically snatching away , at best always contemplating ,planning the act and of  going through the imaginary experience of the false pleasure of acquiring and using those objects for personal sense gratification, the comfort here at least could be that nobody except the person imagining would know about it, but the damage is no less serious than a situation where this is done at a gross physically real level. This is so because your mind is not designed to differentiate between the imaginary and real impressions, and for the mind, imaginary impressions are as real as the real impressions. Thus you face the same cyclical tribulation of unrighteous desire, resulting in stress leading to frustration, thereby either causing you to commit an act that can bring a lot of misfortune to you or always keep craving for owning the righteous possessions of others, leading towards even greater anxiety and stress levels, always looking for an opportunity to go for the unrighteous possession of others’ property.

On the other hand is the self corrected person standing tall on his righteous feet, focusing on his duty to gain the strength of having the commanding force of eternal natural truths on his side leading towards greater peace, inner harmony and a progressive growth trajectory, capable of going higher into the space, setting up new landmarks of success and humility, free from all encumbrances’ which if present are generally accompanied by a  heavy heart and the possessions characteristic of indulging incorrect living.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

How to transform your distress into mental peace and long lasting fulfillment?

Distress Is A Result of Our Past Actions

Whenever we are in a state of distress, most of the time it is a result of our past actions.Our past actions are like seeds sown by us and these grow into fruition with the passage of time.Some of the past actions like , putting our hand into fire, come to fruition almost instantaneously whereas other actions ,like planting a tree


take a little longer but the truth is that sooner or later we have to face the consequences of our actions.Irrespective of the reason for taking our action , the natural laws or eternal truths prevail and do justice in the similar way as a student gets the exam results after the complete year of effort put into the studies.

Total Surrender Unto God Help Sublimate The Long Lasting Effects Of Our Past Actions

There is no escape from this truth, but there is only one remedy and that is,our realization of our mistake.If something wrong is done by us and we genuinely feel sorry for our action, commit to ourselves ,that we are not going to repeat that same mistake again and make sincere efforts to ensure that we live up-to our commitment.Although this may look like a complete solution but this is not enough as the consequences will still keep cropping up, at different times, in our minds and may be in reality as well .During such times if we can relinquish the illusion of our control  on our lives and do a total surrender unto God, the supernatural source of all creation ,and we leave it on his judgement by being mentally prepared to find happiness in whatever is offered to us by him, the unconditional acceptance of his decision can only help sublimate the long lasting effects of our past actions.

We Keep Chasing Material Objects As Symbols of Happiness

It must never be forgotten that all of us have to leave this world empty handed one day or the other, and there is no escape from this reality,but we tend to always and most of the time forget this simple truth of life.The result is ego, minimum consideration for others and behavior as if we are immortals.Most of us already know this and may be wondering , what all this has to do with mental peace and fulfillment, but it is worth noting that our practices in life do not revolve around this simple fact but on the contrary we keep chasing material objects as symbols of happiness, and in the process ,intentionally or unintentionally,keep neglecting and compromising the natural principles thereby sowing the seeds of our actions, destined to turn into crops at different times,which we need to compulsorily reap

There Are Just Two Choices

So the solution is to lead life based on the natural principles,  but the fact remains that there may be a moment in which we decide to do so, but what about the life that we have lead so far as well as the earlier lives that we do not have any knowledge about.Therefore our knowledge of our own past actions is limited and incomplete to a very great extent leading us to a point where we can only expect the crops but we do not know about the seeds sown by us.Therefore there are just two choices , the first and by default is to lead the life of ignorance , where in material objects are at the main focus in our lives leading us to despair, distress, suffering and pain.Whereas the second one is to do a complete and total surrender to God , who can only liberate us from these maladies through sublimation of our past actions.  

God Bless

Success N Synergy  

Don’t Ask, Just Give Proactively – For Building Lasting Success Through Emotional Intelligence

Behavior Stemming From Heavily Saturated Frustration Levels

We see right through our lives, as well as in our day to day experiences, that most of us exhibit extremely self centered behavior in specific circumstances. Such behavior seems to stem from heavily saturated frustration levels , and has become a generally predictable outcome of behavior involving two or more people in any contentious social interaction. 

Contentious Social Interactions Where Etiquette Is Sacrificed 

Be it traffic jam on the road, competition for parking, cozy office environment requiring information exchange between colleagues, siblings competing for limited family resources, neighbors fighting over small privileges, and the list of instances goes on where etiquette is sacrificed.

Self Reflection on the Level and Quality of "Life Skills Education" Is Required 

Just a little bit of self reflection can make us aware that our unkind behavior towards others cannot get justified under the cover of our own mistakes and incorrect living. Because the problem lies with our own choice of either not getting proper education, here by education we do not mean the formal school or college education but the life skills education, where we are taught to differentiate right from the wrong, ethical from the unethical, appropriate from the inappropriate, truth from the false, etc, .Teaching us about the two extremes, as well as the infinite number of choices falling in between. What we choose depends on the level and quality of our life skills education at that point in time, or our inability to apply the learning’s of the life skills education received due to our apathy or lack of correct understanding.

Treat others in a manner in which you would like them to treat you

The need of the hour is to get thoroughly absorbed in the realization that following the prescribed etiquettes is not only the necessity but a prerequisite on which any sustainable success can be founded. We all know that for every action there is equal and opposite reaction, if we can only apply this law in our own behavior we will soon realize we have a magic wand in our hands, meaning now we can program others to respond to us in a particular way. Let us say we want a smile from others, we need to offer a smile and a smile would come back to us. When we lose our cool and get angry on others we forget this law because of which we evoke the emotions of “getting angry” in the other person, it is as simple as that. So let us follow the wisdom before we can be happy , by keeping simple things simple and not complicating them by giving others what we do not want from them or to put it right "we must take care that we give others only what we would like to get from them".

Preserve Energy to Move towards Our Respective Goals with Faster Speed

It is very true that the prescribed etiquettes & manners are the end result of a very well thought out strategy to bring peace, harmony and civility in our society and success to the individuals following them. The degree of success directly proportional to the degree to which the etiquettes & manners are correctly followed Therefore it is very important to reflect on our day to day behavior and evaluate it against the acceptable prescribed standards of etiquettes & manners in each and every social interaction we encounter for harnessing the power of correct living to achieve happiness and bliss. This will open up new relaxation zone for us, where we would not only have support in our chosen endeavor from all the quarters but will also help preserve our energy to move towards our respective goals with faster speed. 

Resolve to act now 

Let's not wait for the others to evoke any type of response from us, but must take the initiative to proactively take control of our own behavior as well as leading by example for others to emulate, for achieving happiness and fulfillment in our lives.

God Bless

Success N Synergy