Why Are You Not Getting The Results That You Want?

The biggest challenges around you are a result of the yawning gap between your results and your expectations.Why people fail to achieve what they had initially set out to accomplish? There may be a variety of reasons but the solution lies in these three simple steps 

Increase the Probability of Identifying Your Purpose In Life By Clarifying Your Values

Identify Your Values

When you know your true constitution and what is really important to you in life, then the decisions to set your goals get simplified. The accuracy to which you define your values , would also increase the probability of you identifying your purpose in life thereby ensuring that you lead a very happy and fulfilled life 

Know What Is Important To You and  Set Out To Accomplish It

Align Your Goals With Your Values

When you have the awareness of what is important to you , it is quite natural that you would logically set out to accomplish it. Therefore before you set your goals it is absolutely critical to identify your values and ensure that there is alignment between the two. Because if there is mismatch between your values and goals then any effort to accomplish will be an exercise in futility

Take Charge Of Your Life , Start Living Your Values To Achieve Your Goals

Align Your Behavior With Your Goals and Values

The importance of aligning your behavior to your goals and values, cannot be over emphasized, in a sincere attempt towards being successful. Because if you have not clearly identified your values any amount of scientific goal setting would be of no recourse just like a ship with out sailboard cannot be propelled into the ocean.And even if the sailboard is functional on the ship but the sailor doesn't know the desired destination then the sailor would not know the correct direction to the destination and would eventually fail to adjust the sail against the wind leading to undesired results.

Take charge of your life, identify your values, validate you goals with your values and start with the habit of living your values to achieve your goals.

Sanjay V Sharma

Calm Posture – A Divine Virtue

This Divine Virtue Leads to Manifesting Other Divine Virtues

You realize the importance of a calm posture better, when you experience a situation marked by its absence in your persona. When you are devoid of this grace, you tend to lose sight of your goals, purpose, values, and priorities in your life. The absence of this divine virtue drags you into


  unnecessary exchanges with others and you generally end up in the middle of great unanticipated problems by distorting your logical frame of reference through a biased paradigm shift at your subconscious level, without your realizing that all this is actually happening with you. In other words the modes of ignorance and/or passion cast their spell on you, as soon as you step out of the realms of this or any other divine virtue, and you get carried away by the illusion called Maya. The presence of this divine virtue plays a very critical role in keeping you on the right track thereby creating an environment conducive to the manifestation of all other divine virtues   responsible for your holistic growth towards realizing the potential of being at your best.

Compromising on Divine Virtues Trigger a Cascade of Further Compromises

Consider a situation where you experience anxiety or fear, this is the time when you lose your calm , now whatever decisions you take will not be based on the solid background of eternal universal truths but will be guided by the motive of overcoming the anxiety or fear prevailing at that point in time. The similar understanding can be developed for the other divine virtues as well. It is worth noting that any compromise on even one divine virtue can push you into a cascade of events resulting in situations where further compromises on other divine virtues are triggered without much effort on your part.

Why Crimes Happen In Our Society?

Consider a situation where you had some argument with your spouse or friend before you moved out in your car, if you get affected by this and carry the disturbing negativity of the resultant frustration and anger with you, there is a very high possibility that even the slightest provocation by any person, event or situation will make you reactby exhibiting the same behavior of frustration and anger. This is the major reason why most of the crimes happen in our society. When we compromise on the divine virtues we unconsciously let the ignorance and/or passion take control of our beings and we begin to slide on the downward spiral of anger, lust, greed, frustration, jealousy, fear hatred, enmity, etc.  On the contrary when we block the access of ignorance and passion, by following divine virtues in totality by forming the habit of living by these divine virtues, we not only maintain our calm but also pave way to a more significant, vibrant, fulfilling & happy life.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Don't Wait For The Skies To Fall - Sky May Never Fall But You Can

A New Paradigm

There is a saying that,"Bad habits are easy to form but difficult to break.” Whether this is true or not, depends upon what do we like to choose. We need to rewrite this old adage with a new paradigm, to be read as,"Bad habits are difficult to form but easy to break".  

Factors Leading to this Paradigm Shift

1.     Nothing is more powerful than an idea whose time has come;

Let's look at the factors which make this paradigm shift possible, but before doing this, it is only natural to make a note of the turn of events in the last century. We crawled from agriculture age to information age. It does not mean that technology & information exchange could have not thrived in the times of agriculture age, the same technology that works today could have generated the same results at that time as well, but can anybody tell why all this hi-tech revolution did not happen at the time when agriculture was supposed to be the main activity for any country to progress and register its supremacy. The answer is that there is a right time for everything, yes that is it.

2.     Now it is possible to improve speed of action without compromising on the  overall quality;

In the earlier times, when this adage gained ground, the world used to move at a much slower pace as compared to its speed in the present times. Today we have instant quick fix solutions, a word of caution, what we are not encouraging here is “shortcut at the cost of quality”, on the contrary what we are saying here is that, the times have changed and now it is possible to improve speed of action without compromising on the overall quality. Take different examples such as communication speed between two distant locations improved from an initial, large number of months to an instant communication through telephone and internet connectivity in the present times, travel speed also improved from the pain of travelling for months to moving between two distant destinations in a lesser number of hours, this also applies to the medical advances, astronomy, etc., and the list goes on. In a nut shell we can say that there is no activity in our lives which has not evolved to be a fast paced affair defying all time constraints which were, until some time back considered as insurmountable challenges. Today anything which can be controlled by humans, has become increasingly fast paced with blurring, and in certain cases no, time lines, making our belief as the major determinant of our present and future possibilities. If the agriculture age people had only witnessed such instantaneous actions, then they themselves would have evolved the new paradigm. 

    3.Any scientific invention that is supporting our life styles today is only a          discovery & application of very firmly established universal eternal  truths:

If we agree with this statement than it is easier for us to know that if we also discover, if we have not yet done so, & apply the universal eternal truths to our own behavior than we can get the same revolutionary results. Just to elaborate the point, all the systems such as electricity, laptop, air-travel, etc, are operational & ready just waiting for our command to activate them, because these are installed on the scientific support systems , which in turn are based on the universal eternal truths eg; property of electrons, insulators/ conductors used, and the list goes on. Similarly if we are tuned into the universal eternal truths and our behaviors are geared up to match the agility of the support systems surrounding us, there is no doubt that we will be quick to action, with good habits as well as to avoid the bad habits.

4.     Linking our present behavior to its immediate,short term, medium term and long term consequences;

We can clearly make out how far our behavior is consistent with our values, goals & purpose in life. With a robust grounding in the universal eternal truths our state of readiness will be our second nature and at that stage the new adage, "Bad habits are difficult to form but easy to break", will be only a natural extension of our genuine self.

5.     Taking out time to reflect on our lives to assess whether we are action oriented or not?

If we are action oriented, we just need to ensure that there is proper alignment with what is really important to us inlife. In case we lack action, we need to stop procrastinating and take action because delaying action is only going to get us further down the hill but the sky will retain its original position.

So take action now, only you can bring about that positive change in your life

God Bless

          Success N Synergy