Sanjay V Sharma

The biggest challenges around you are a result of the yawning gap between your results and your expectations.Why people fail to achieve what they had initially set out to accomplish? There may be a variety of reasons but the solution lies in these three simple steps  Increase the Probability of Identifying Your Purpose In Life By Clarifying Your Values Identify Your Values When you know your true constitution and what is really important to you in life, then the decisions to set your goals get simplified. The accuracy to which you define your values , would also increase the probability of you identifying your purpose in life thereby ensuring that you lead a very happy and fulfilled life  Know What Is Important To You and  Set Out To Accomplish It Align Your Goals With Your Values When you have the awareness of what is important to you , it is quite natural that you would logically set out to accomplish it. Therefore before you set your goals it is absolutely critical to ...

A New Paradigm There is a saying that,"Bad habits are easy to form but difficult to break.” Whether this is true or not, depends upon what do we like to choose . We need to rewrite this old adage with a new paradigm , to be read as,"Bad habits are difficult to form but easy to break".   Factors Leading to this Paradigm Shift 1.      Nothing is more powerful than an idea whose time has come; Let's look at the factors which make this paradigm shift possible, but before doing this, it is only natural to make a note of the turn of events in the last century. We crawled from agriculture age to information age. It does not mean that technology & information exchange could have not thrived in the times of agriculture age, the same technology that works today could have generated the same results at that time as well, but can anybody tell why all this hi-tech revolution did not happen at the time when agriculture was supposed to be the main activity for any countr...

Behavior Stemming From Heavily Saturated Frustration Levels We see right through our lives, as well as in our day to day experiences, that most of us exhibit extremely self centered behavior in specific circumstances. Such behavior seems to stem from  heavily saturated frustration levels  , and has become a generally predictable outcome of behavior involving two or more people in any contentious social interaction.  Contentious Social Interactions Where Etiquette Is Sacrificed   Be it traffic jam on the road, competition for parking, cozy office environment requiring information exchange between colleagues, siblings competing for limited family resources, neighbors fighting over small privileges, and the list of instances goes on where etiquette is sacrificed. Self Reflection on the Level and Quality of "Life Skills Education" Is Required   Just a little bit of self reflection can make us aware  that our unkind behavior towards others cannot get justified ...