Successful People Use Emotional Intelligence to their Advantage

It Is Essential To Also Know That Ignorance Is Not Bliss

Acquire Knowledge Regarding Emotional Intelligence

It is important for you to know that you are responsible for what  you do. Most of the time many people act without this self realization, which dawns on them only when they are actually facing the consequences of their actions. Therefore it is essential to also know that


 ignorance is not bliss but it can lead you into unexpected zones, which may not be very pleasant. Approach knowledge centers and professionals with knowledge , read relevant books to acquire the knowledge you need but do not cut a sorry figure in the end saying that you did not know about the theory of action and consequences.

 Three Stages of Action

Think about the possible consequences of your action before embarking

You do not even know who all are affected by your actions and how these actions come back to you in the form of consequences of these actions. So the golden rule is to seek wisdom from any authentic source and use your own judgment to think about the possible consequences of the action that you want to take. There are three stages in which action is taken by you, the first stage is when you direct your thought towards the objective you wish to accomplish and then look at the alternative courses of actions which can help you in achieving that particular objective, the second stage is when you evaluate all these possible options on the basis of the most likely outcome each one of them is going to produce once implemented, and the third stage is to implement the chosen option on the basis of the most likely outcome that would be achieved.

Emotional Intelligence Can Be Developed

The irony is that most people , most of the time jump to the third stage without considering the first two       stages, and they implement the action of the third stage still going just the action way without thinking about

Learn the right way to take the right action

the consequences of that action, the most likely outcome of that action. The point to be noted here is not that the people jumping to the third stage do not actually jump to the third stage but they lack awareness of the existence of the first two stages. Thus , what is important here is that these people need to get educated about making the correct and proper use of choosing the right action. And the people who have only action orientation without any regard to the consequences, completely lack knowledge about this decision process when taking action. These people are lacking in emotional intelligence, which can be developed through gaining self awareness and  by getting trained to the right way to go about taking action, with a clear focus on the consequences

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Successful People Use Emotional Intelligence to Their Advantage

If you happen to analyze a few successful people as well as a few not so successful people, you would find that the successful people are using their emotional intelligence to their advantage , whereas the not so

successful people have not been able to take advantage of this natural endowment,called emotional intelligence, lying dominant inside them. The irony continues beyond this point in the form of people failing to ascertain the consequences of their actions and taking such actions involving breach of the law or causing irreversible damage to their lives and careers by getting involved in actions with far reaching consequences sometimes leading them to severe legal penalties and imprisonment. All this happens because they lack,emotional intelligence,the awareness of the consequences of their actions.

Take The Right Action Towards Leading a Happy And Fulfilling Life

The difference lies in exposing a very large number of people to the awareness and training for developing their emotional intelligence because this can act as the one timely stitch which can save nine. At times , it can prevent most of the unwanted situations from the lives of most of the people. The challenge is to rate yourself on the development and application of emotional intelligence , this exercise may prompt you to take the right action towards leading  a happy and fulfilling life by developing your emotional intelligence.

God Bless

Success N Synergy  

  

Self Realization - A Big Challenge

Uphold Divine Virtues

Self realization is a big challenge, as you need to uphold all the divine virtues on a continuous basis in the wake of the ever increasing challenges facing you. In the external environment you have instant access to a

 lot of negativity without much effort and intention on your part. It is so easy to get victimized without even knowing that you are falling prey to the evil, the very glitter which attracts you towards itself and the craving for pride which lies inside you to become the master, the only owner, of this glittering matter. You want instant sense gratification and are willing to go to any extent to achieve these ends, with only one result, that comes back to you in many forms such as, devastation, misery, grief, broken relationships, pain and poor health.

Live In Harmony with Universal Eternal Truths

At the face of it, the attraction offered by the visible negativity is very intense. Only an understanding embedded with divine virtues, based on universal eternal truths can help you in applying the brakes, thereby generating a good enough friction to stop before getting engulfed in the fire of the glittering negativity. The solution is to live in harmony with universal eternal truths.

Choose Positive Options

  And whenever you have to take a decision, review and categorize the available options as either negative or positive. The options that can help you, live in harmony with universal eternal truths, can be identified with at least one or more of the divine virtues, these can be termed as positive while options which can take us away from the from the universal eternal truths and are a compromise on the divine virtues can be called negative. Whatever the provocation, without bothering about, what the world & the other people involved are doing, you must keep a constant check to ensure that you are on the right track. 

Seek Guidance From An Authentic Teacher

To build the diversions and speed breakers on the path of negativity, you must keep company of the person who lives by the divine virtues and you must also seek guidance from a qualified teacher, who can provide you the anchor to hold on whenever you tend to slip under the influence of negativity. Your complete devotion to the ideal of living by the divine virtues can uphold you even under most trying circumstances. When you know that living by the divine virtues keeps you aligned with the universal eternal truths, you do not have to get involved into the mad rat race as the universal intelligence provides for your genuine needs and requirements. You need to take immediate action for achieving happiness & fulfillment by knowing your true values in life.    

God Bless

Success N Synergy