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We Are Only What Others Perceive Us to Be

  Align Actual Self with Self Image We may have some self image of ourselves, this is the way we think about us, in reality this self image may or may not match with our actual self. Thus we must note that there are gaps between what we think we are and what we actually are, these gaps shall be referred as  DISA(Distortions In Self Appraisal), if Self Image is represented by SI, and Actual Self by AS , then we have DISA (Distortions in Self Appraisal) = SI (Self Image) - AS (Actual Self) DISA (Distortions in Self Appraisal)  happen because we love to see ourselves as what we aspire to be and not as what we actually are. Stop correcting others & Start Working on Self Improvement The real difference lies between those of us who are aware of these gaps and are constantly striving to uplift our  AS (Actual Self)  to match our  SI (Self Image) , and in the process raise the bar by setting up even higher standards of  S...