Sanjay V Sharma

Most  People Don't Go Beyond The Resolution Setting Stage, Although They Have The Intent Of Achieving Them Have You Set Any Resolutions For New Year? It is generally observed that out of the people who set their resolutions for the New Year, only a handful of them actually make progress on these personalized success parameters. The resolutions could vary from being physically fit to be having happy family life or from being an early morning riser to being able to quit alcohol or from being able to maintain a healthy diet to being able to control your temper in difficult circumstances , etc, and the list can go and on. Resolutions Are Outward Expression of Cravings and Desires What so ever may be your chosen resolutions, do you know that your resolutions are an outward expression of your deep rooted cravings and long lasting unfulfilled desires? It is all about your strongly held beliefs of your self-image and the identity you wish to project to the world. But ironically a vast majo...

  Align Actual Self with Self Image We may have some self image of ourselves, this is the way we think about us, in reality this self image may or may not match with our actual self. Thus we must note that there are gaps between what we think we are and what we actually are, these gaps shall be referred as  DISA(Distortions In Self Appraisal), if Self Image is represented by SI, and Actual Self by AS , then we have DISA (Distortions in Self Appraisal) = SI (Self Image) - AS (Actual Self) DISA (Distortions in Self Appraisal)  happen because we love to see ourselves as what we aspire to be and not as what we actually are. Stop correcting others & Start Working on Self Improvement The real difference lies between those of us who are aware of these gaps and are constantly striving to uplift our  AS (Actual Self)  to match our  SI (Self Image) , and in the process raise the bar by setting up even higher standards of  S...