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Successful People Use Emotional Intelligence to their Advantage

It Is Essential To Also Know That Ignorance Is Not Bliss Acquire Knowledge Regarding Emotional Intelligence It is important for you to know that you are responsible for what  you do. Most of the time many people act  without this  self realization , which dawns on them only when they are actually facing the consequences of their actions. Therefore it is essential to also know that   ignorance  is not bliss but it can lead you into unexpected zones, which may not be very pleasant. Approach knowledge centers and professionals with knowledge , read relevant books to acquire the  knowledge  you need but do not cut a sorry figure in the end saying that you did not know about the theory of action and consequences.  Three Stages of Action Think about the possible consequences of your action before embarking You do not even know who all are affected by your actions and how these actions come back to you in the form of consequences of these actions. So th...

Achieving Personal Effectiveness through Emotional Intelligence

Choose & Act on the Most Appropriate Thoughts Achieving effectiveness is governed by very simple thought processes. It is like choosing and acting on the most appropriate thoughts . At times you need to consciously generate these thoughts till they become a very natural habit to you. For instance if you wish to be a good public speaker , you must learn the principles governing the discipline of public speaking, once you know these principles , you must practice them regularly, so that these principles are relegated to your memory. Now as and when an opportunity of public speaking presents itself, you must hold it and show case your talent . The Power of Directing Thought towards Goals The fact could be that you are scared of public speaking, but the moment you take off your mind from the thought of fearing this activity and place it on the track of learning about public speaking and practicing it. You open a world of opportunities in public speaking, this is the power of directing...

Success Mantra – Develop Emotional Intelligence by Channelizing Your Positive Energy

Strengthen Your Internal Voice When you notice that your own hand is betraying your trust, you must know that most probably you have landed into the state of total or partial paralysis. By your hand what we mean here is someone, whom you trust like your own-self and if this person betrays you, in such a situation  you are left with just two options. The first, and the undesirable, one is get into an open confrontation with this person and the second option is to realize the futility of such worldly relationships, as the one you had with the person who betrayed your trust. You can exercise this second option of handling the set back by conserving your energy , and consolidating your internal voice . You must also treat this as a signal from the supernatural, of the fact that such dependencies, for drawing any emotional support, on any person or material object can never be a relief in the wake of the challenges facing you. The only source of real & lasting happiness can be found...

Freedom, from Jealousy & from Craving for Pride - A Divine Virtue

Freedom is an innate virtue, your state of fulfillment or otherwise depends upon whether this natural endowment is used or misused by you respectively. You can progress in the direction of a fulfilling life only when you have the freedom from jealousy as well as the freedom from the craving for pride. All Struggle in this World is the Result of the Craving for Pride; Most of us generally believe that we are the real owners of our various material possessions in this world and take great pride in thinking that we are the factual owners of these material possessions, where as the fact is that these material possessions are in the ownership of God. All the struggle of most people in this world is the result of the craving for the false pride of staking the claim for the material possessions around them. Jealousy if Allowed to Dominate Eats into the Feeling of Fulfillment ; When a hot object is placed near ice, the ice starts losing its form and it finally gets converted into  liqui...