Don't Despair, Happiness Can Again Replace This Pain

                                                                 When you were born,you were in your original & pure form, as you had started a new journey.During this journey you took certain actions which affected your personality.There were certain influences, which were positive but there were negative influences as well.

The positive influences were in line with the universal eternal truths and helped in creating & reinforcing your happy disposition, marked with optimism, creativity,hope,love, humility & gratitude, towards life.Where as negative influences though looked very attractive externally, but when imbibed led towards despondency, hatred, depression,anxiety,anger,rage,melancholy & anything but happiness.Thus you grew up as a mix of positive & negative influences,the ratio in which we experience happiness or otherwise depends on our predisposition created with this mix.If there is a dominance of positive influences in your life you will seem to be happy in a proportion higher than that of the state marked by the absence of happiness.

The way out, is by 

• Identifying & diluting/removing the impact of negative influences from your life and
• Identifying & building/ the reservoir of positive influences in your life

As a child you observed a lot of action happening around you , you picked certain role models and started identifying with them by emulating these models.The important aspects of negative influences are that

• They look very attractive when you observe them, 
• They provide great pleasure , when you experience them the first time 
• From second experience onward the pleasure drawn keeps on reducing
• Towards the continuum the pleasure becomes zero at a point 
• There after the same experience starts giving pain and 
• The pain keeps on increasing with each experience  

Until you realize that the experience which used to give pleasure has suddenly started giving pain,but the transition from pleasure to pain is not sudden, but we observed it only once we felt that the same experience is no longer providing the joy which you used to enjoy earlier but on the contrary there is a feeling of pain  and this pain is eating out the space to be occupied with happiness.The happiness can again replace this pain if we start building the reservoir of positive influences by living our lives based on the universal eternal truths.

Don't despair, it is possible to achieve happiness but this will call for an open mind, a disciplined approach towards self analysis and a meticulous execution at the level of personal self.

      

God bless

Success N Synergy
       

Achieving Happiness & Fulfillment In Your Life

                                     "For Every Action There Is An Equal and Opposite Reaction",this statement is known as Newton's Third Law of Motion.You may be wondering what this law has to do here, but we need to understand the application of this law to our day to day living to be able to take advantage of this truth.

                                                    Consider observing what is happening around us, did you notice that most of the people are continuously reacting to the one thing or the other,this causes a lot of energy wastage because either we do not have our own agenda or we lose track of that agenda when we start reacting impulsively to the situation, circumstances and people around us.In most cases we can see that the day begins with a reaction to the external stimulus and ends with another form of external stimulus.We can clearly see that we come into the line of somebody's action and then we react to that action,be it a telephone call, a remark ,a request or some thing else, our response is almost instant and generally a standard one for a particular stimulus.That is where we need to evaluate our response on the parameters critical to our energy channelization efficiency.This helps us in knowing whether such response is

• In line with our deeper values
• Going to genuinely benefit every one involved 
• Appropriate to be categorized as correct etiquette and manners 
• Acceptable to yourself from others in a similar situation 
• Directed towards achieving your goals
• Based on the universal eternal truths

                                                        If the answer to all these is in affirmative, then your response is correct and is directed towards bringing about happiness and fulfillment in your life, because when these parameters are taken care of, our 100% energy is dedicated towards the accomplishment of our goals.On the other hand when these are violated then we dissipate our energy in reacting to external stimulus.

Keep your response on track to experience inner joy, once this is internalized as a habit ,your progress towards the desired goal of achieving happiness & fulfillment in your life would happen at a much faster pace.

God Bless

Success N Synergy 

Power of Correct Living To Achieve Happiness and Bliss

                                              It is quite an ironical truth,that all us are generally hurt by some one known to us, because our expectations are not met or when our faith and trust is broken.In that situation we go through a great amount of unbearable pain.

                                                When you feel let down by your loved ones, always look at your self and the whole world in terms of  our purpose of existence.Every body here is supposed to lead life with integrity in line with the universal eternal truths, consciously or unconsciously.

                                                 We are into some situation or the other, but what ever thought comes to our mind ,we should carefully examine it and see if it is positive or negative,if it is a negative thought we must notice it and tell ourselves that this is a negative thought and we must not get into its grip.This very thought process will separate us from the negative thought and we will be able to view the functioning of our mind as a separate entity.It is like a mature person who knows if he needs to abstain from following the advise of another person, if he considers it not worth.

                                                 If we can train ourselves to do this then we start treating our own mind as an outsider always instructing us to feel in a particular way and it is up to us to properly analyse the mind , by weighing the pros and cons of the thoughts being highlighted with the use of our intellect and wisdom .This will help us in knowing if the mind is leading us in the right direction.and the moment we realize that the directive of the mind is not correct that is the time we automatically come out of the grip of the negativity being created by the mind.

                                                 It is like switching TV channels, when we do not like a particular channel we simply use the remote control to tune out that channel and tune in to a channel which we would like to watch.Similarly if our mind is popping up any thought or feeling which is making us feel miserable or unhappy , we can simply switch over to some thing which would make us feel happy,in this case the major difference is we do not have a physical remote control, therefore we need to learn this art by constantly uplifting ourselves. We can uplift ourselves by living life in accordance with the universal eternal truths.This can be done in four simple steps

Step One

Know the universal eternal truths

Step Two

Practice to live by these universal eternal truths

Step Three

Continuously monitor yourself to ensure that you internalize these universal eternal truths in the form of habits and practically start living in accordance with them. 

Step Four

Teach others to experience the power of correct living to achieve happiness and bliss

It is a known fact that when we teach others , we learn the best, therefore if you learn something good and you wish to retain and internalize it, the best way is to teach others, who would benefit by learning from you.But before you could start teaching,which is the fourth step you need to be through with the first three steps.

God Bless

Success N Synergy