Sanjay V Sharma

Every Other Day Y ou Hear About Such Instances   A Man Committing Suicide In your day to day experiences , a lot of instances come to your observation as these events occur around you. In the last few days there were  three stories, highlighted in the news, related to the stuff we are discussing here.  1st story - A lady, mother of two, committed suicide by jumped out of the fifth floor , following a tiff with her husband. 2nd story - A husband connived with his lady friend , outside his marriage, to  mastermind the kidnapping & gruesome murder of his wife 3rd story - A man was brutally beaten to death by a group of people led by his neighbor in front of his own house, over arguments related to the car parking. Can You Do Something about this Problem? You  may have no clue regarding the reasons for these occurrences , as you hear about these events, very rarely do you feel or think that this may happen to you any time in life. You Must Be Part of the Solutio...

Lord Rama With Lord Hanuman When Your Team doesn't Buy Your Values Leadership and teamwork are critical to the success of any management endeavor. This is more true today than could have been at any other time. When your team members are not in line with your values and are not convinced about the objective you want to accomplish, this is a clear indication of  the fact that the vital management principle of "Esprit de Corpse- In Union there is Strength" , is missing. Such a huge gap with in the team , shall be nothing less than fatal if this anomaly doesn't  get rectified , till it is still with in the elastic limits of regaining its desired strong position.  This concept was true in the times as early as the period where Lord Rama , incarnation of Lord Vishnu, lived on this earth in the human form. The epic which narrates the story pertaining to the birth and life of Lord Rama is known as Ramayana. Expertise , Dedication , Dexterity & Commitment are exhibited ...

It Is Essential To Also Know That Ignorance Is Not Bliss Acquire Knowledge Regarding Emotional Intelligence It is important for you to know that you are responsible for what  you do. Most of the time many people act  without this  self realization , which dawns on them only when they are actually facing the consequences of their actions. Therefore it is essential to also know that   ignorance  is not bliss but it can lead you into unexpected zones, which may not be very pleasant. Approach knowledge centers and professionals with knowledge , read relevant books to acquire the  knowledge  you need but do not cut a sorry figure in the end saying that you did not know about the theory of action and consequences.  Three Stages of Action Think about the possible consequences of your action before embarking You do not even know who all are affected by your actions and how these actions come back to you in the form of consequences of these actions. So th...

Choose & Act on the Most Appropriate Thoughts Achieving effectiveness is governed by very simple thought processes. It is like choosing and acting on the most appropriate thoughts . At times you need to consciously generate these thoughts till they become a very natural habit to you. For instance if you wish to be a good public speaker , you must learn the principles governing the discipline of public speaking, once you know these principles , you must practice them regularly, so that these principles are relegated to your memory. Now as and when an opportunity of public speaking presents itself, you must hold it and show case your talent . The Power of Directing Thought towards Goals The fact could be that you are scared of public speaking, but the moment you take off your mind from the thought of fearing this activity and place it on the track of learning about public speaking and practicing it. You open a world of opportunities in public speaking, this is the power of directing...

Strengthen Your Internal Voice When you notice that your own hand is betraying your trust, you must know that most probably you have landed into the state of total or partial paralysis. By your hand what we mean here is someone, whom you trust like your own-self and if this person betrays you, in such a situation  you are left with just two options. The first, and the undesirable, one is get into an open confrontation with this person and the second option is to realize the futility of such worldly relationships, as the one you had with the person who betrayed your trust. You can exercise this second option of handling the set back by conserving your energy , and consolidating your internal voice . You must also treat this as a signal from the supernatural, of the fact that such dependencies, for drawing any emotional support, on any person or material object can never be a relief in the wake of the challenges facing you. The only source of real & lasting happiness can be found...

Be Ever Ready To Accept Your Mistake Mistake is the action taken under the impression that you are doing the right thing, therefore innocence or ignorance is the underlying cause of any mistake. Then the right strategy should be to get rid of  ignorance by getting educated, and innocence can be countered by being aware of the fact that although you may think something to be correct, due to lack of wisdom  or information regarding that subject, but it is still possible for you to discover at a later stage that you were not right. Thus possessing the humility of being open, to accept such realities and learn from them is the first step towards personal leadership and growth. It calls for a great deal of humility to be ever ready to accept your mistake, where you may have no awareness of this fact, till such time this reality is brought to your notice through some external factors or it dawns on you through your intrinsic realization that you were not right when you acted und...

Uphold Divine Virtues Self realization is a big challenge, as you need to uphold all the divine virtues on a continuous basis in the wake of the ever increasing challenges facing you. In the external environment you have instant access to a  lot of negativity without much effort and intention on your part. It is so easy to get victimized without even knowing that you are falling prey to the evil, the very glitter which attracts you towards itself and the craving for pride which lies inside you to become the master, the only owner, of this glittering matter. You want instant sense gratification and are willing to go to any extent to achieve these ends, with only one result, that comes back to you in many forms such as, devastation, misery, grief, broken relationships, pain and poor health. Live In Harmony with Universal Eternal Truths At the face of it, the attraction offered by the visible negativity is very intense. Only an understanding embedded with divine v...