Success Mantra – Develop Emotional Intelligence by Channelizing Your Positive Energy

Strengthen Your Internal Voice

When you notice that your own hand is betraying your trust, you must know that most probably you have landed into the state of total or partial paralysis. By your hand what we mean here is someone, whom you

trust like your own-self and if this person betrays you, in such a situation 

you are left with just two options. The first, and the undesirable, one is get into an open confrontation with this person and the second option is to realize the futility of such worldly relationships, as the one you had with the person who betrayed your trust. You can exercise this second option of handling the set back by conserving your energy, and consolidating your internal voice. You must also treat this as a signal from the supernatural, of the fact that such dependencies, for drawing any emotional support, on any person or material object can never be a relief in the wake of the challenges facing you. The only source of real & lasting happiness can be found in living the eternal truths, as these are never changing and their validity pervades the realms of time and space.

Any Stranger Could Have Not Been Chosen by the Super Natural to Inflict This Misery on You

It is worthwhile to note here that the pain of betrayal can be inflicted on you only by people whom you trust, so there is no point in blaming and cursing them because any stranger could have not been used by the super natural to plan the infliction of this misery on you, more over the pain experienced by you is only the result of your own past actions or karma, but one thing is for sure that the person who betrayed you, did so under the illusion created by ignorance or passion , and has definitely neither understood life nor the role played by personal leadership, emotional intelligence and the invaluable internal support in achieving long lasting happiness & fulfillment. This person is no different than others and has acted with the objective of achieving happiness, but did not know the working of Maya or illusion, thereby getting trapped into its clutches. So such a person needs a lot of sympathy and best wishes to break free from the strong hold of Maya or illusion, and needs your support to overcome this handicap. Such an approach of helping this person, although, shall go a long way in developing your leadership potential and emotional intelligence reservoir, very much needed to achieve lasting peace and happiness in your life.

Intent of the Supernatural Is To Make You Emotionally Stronger

Once this realization dawns on you, utmost care must be taken to ensure that you stop depending upon such people, because so long as you continue to depend upon them, you are most likely to re-experience the similar paralytic condition in your life, with the only exception of depending on the super natural to be a non deplete-able reservoir of emotional support and wisdom. In case of any such eventuality, when you are pushed into a situation of immense unbearable pain, apart from the stated learning, the intent of the supernatural is to make you emotionally stronger because the super natural wants you to become strong enough for handling the difficult stuff specifically meant to be handled by you.

Either You Break Under Pressure or You Develop Your Emotional Intelligence

At any given time you should be thankful to such people who play a major role in the design of the supernatural by having an inappropriate behavior towards you. This inappropriate behavior can range from cheating you, breaking your trust, lying to you, being rude to you, thinking and wishing bad for you, feeling jealous of you, etc. When a person displays such negative emotions against you, you have a cause to celebrate that you have arrived and these people are laying a testing ground as an examination to qualify or disqualify you against these odds. The result of this test is measured by a simple yardstick - weather you break under these pressures by retaliating against these provocations or you develop your emotional intelligence by applying restraint, for maintaining a cool head under all kinds of circumstances and not forgetting your etiquette of consideration and respect towards others as also living the core philosophy underlined by the universal eternal truths and the divine or the right virtues

Build Proactive Emotional Muscle to Achieve the Success You Truly Deserve

You must also understand that the supernatural power needs people with high emotional maturity to take on very critical tasks, having no margin for error of any type, which require a very strong person to handle it. Therefore the degree of your emotional maturity is tested by giving you the situations with varying intensities of emotional turbulence, the idea is to see whether you get qualified or disqualified for bigger and more stringent examinations, hence there is a difference between the levels of success achieved by you as described by your capacity to withstand pressures and emotionally testing times without succumbing to them, on the contrary if you break out of the discipline prescribed by the universal eternal truths and the divine virtues, you stagnate at that particular level of incompetence till you are able to build your proactive emotional muscle to qualify for the success truly deserved by you. Therefore if you develop the capability to channelize all your negative experiences as a positive input to fuel your growth, then you would have mastered yourself and would be the most eligible & deserving person for achieving success, happiness & fulfillment in your life.

God Bless Success N Synergy

Your First Step towards Personal Leadership

Be Ever Ready To Accept Your Mistake

Mistake is the action taken under the impression that you are doing the right thing, therefore innocence or ignorance is the underlying cause of any mistake. Then the right strategy should be to get rid of 

ignorance by getting educated, and innocence can be countered by being aware of the fact that although you may think something to be correct, due to lack of wisdom or information regarding that subject, but it is still possible for you to discover at a later stage that you were not right. Thus possessing the humility of being open, to accept such realities and learn from them is the first step towards personal leadership and growth.

It calls for a great deal of humility to be ever ready to accept your mistake, where you may have no awareness of this fact, till such time this reality is brought to your notice through some external factors or it dawns on you through your intrinsic realization that you were not right when you acted under the illusion of it being right.

Know the Causes of Illusions

If you look around yourself you would recognize that there are infinite factors responsible for even the simplest of the outcome to happen. No we are not discussing the theory of probability, but even more interestingly the underlying causes or the factors leading to the illusions owing to the imperfect human sensory perception and Maya, responsible for decoding these events as they do it. The Maya or illusion coupled with your ego is the main reason for such occurrences. Time and again the scientific discoveries have revealed that our senses are imperfect and so is our understanding & interpretation of the events happening around us. Thus we see that different people, with different levels of perception, viewing the same distant object. Each of them will be 100% confident of their individual perception, but the fact could be that none of them may be right. The factors responsible for such variations could be better explained by plotting their differing individual concentration spans, selective distortion, language barriers, intellectual capabilities, personal biases, education, aptitude, aspirations, conditioning and motivation.

Your Perception Is the Reflection of Your Real Self

Your perception regarding the external world is the reflection of your true self and converse of this is also true as whatever perception you hold of the external world, gets manifested inside you, this is the power of law of attraction. Therefore it is said that when you criticize others you tend to carry and develop their negative attributes inside you and the same is true for the praise offered by you to others, but the point to be noted is that you must refrain from criticizing others and you must be genuinely sincere in your praise, this must be heartfelt and in no way be flattery, targeted to please those involved.

Preempt Falling Prey to Illusion

Therefore you must understand that these differences emanate from the dynamic psychological as well as the ever changing physiological conditioning based on differing levels of socio-cultural, socio-economic, socio-demographic and socio-political exposure. As we have discussed earlier also that Maya drags us under the influence of passion and ignorance, and this is fueled by our false ego.  It is ironical to note that most of the time, the fears and worries influencing your life, as you live under the deplorable conditions, of stress & anxiety generated by them, are imaginary and unreal. This is the impact of Maya or illusion, and even the most intelligent & knowledgeable people cannot escape from its trap, such is the strength of this Maya or illusion. This is because your worldly intelligence & knowledge is grounded in the primary motive of acquiring material possessions and therefore the only way to preempt your falling prey to the designs of illusion or Maya is to follow the real wisdom emanating from the divine virtues by living the universal eternal truths, and by surrendering your ego to the super natural power or God

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Self Realization - A Big Challenge

Uphold Divine Virtues

Self realization is a big challenge, as you need to uphold all the divine virtues on a continuous basis in the wake of the ever increasing challenges facing you. In the external environment you have instant access to a

 lot of negativity without much effort and intention on your part. It is so easy to get victimized without even knowing that you are falling prey to the evil, the very glitter which attracts you towards itself and the craving for pride which lies inside you to become the master, the only owner, of this glittering matter. You want instant sense gratification and are willing to go to any extent to achieve these ends, with only one result, that comes back to you in many forms such as, devastation, misery, grief, broken relationships, pain and poor health.

Live In Harmony with Universal Eternal Truths

At the face of it, the attraction offered by the visible negativity is very intense. Only an understanding embedded with divine virtues, based on universal eternal truths can help you in applying the brakes, thereby generating a good enough friction to stop before getting engulfed in the fire of the glittering negativity. The solution is to live in harmony with universal eternal truths.

Choose Positive Options

  And whenever you have to take a decision, review and categorize the available options as either negative or positive. The options that can help you, live in harmony with universal eternal truths, can be identified with at least one or more of the divine virtues, these can be termed as positive while options which can take us away from the from the universal eternal truths and are a compromise on the divine virtues can be called negative. Whatever the provocation, without bothering about, what the world & the other people involved are doing, you must keep a constant check to ensure that you are on the right track. 

Seek Guidance From An Authentic Teacher

To build the diversions and speed breakers on the path of negativity, you must keep company of the person who lives by the divine virtues and you must also seek guidance from a qualified teacher, who can provide you the anchor to hold on whenever you tend to slip under the influence of negativity. Your complete devotion to the ideal of living by the divine virtues can uphold you even under most trying circumstances. When you know that living by the divine virtues keeps you aligned with the universal eternal truths, you do not have to get involved into the mad rat race as the universal intelligence provides for your genuine needs and requirements. You need to take immediate action for achieving happiness & fulfillment by knowing your true values in life.    

God Bless

Success N Synergy

How to Take Your Confidence to the Next Level?

Truthfulness a divine virtue

A lot of fads will come and go, but the basic ingredients of a confident and successful personality shall always remain the same. Truthfulness is one of the basic ingredients which can take your

 confidence to the next level. You will generally feel to be highly confident when you consistently follow the divine virtue of truthfulness.

When you live up to this divine virtue, you eliminate problems at these three levels

1.No Cover-up Required

The first level is your individual persona which doesn't get mired by the doubts hovering over your mind as you do not have to cover up for the compromise on this divine virtue, there will be no pressure created which could have derailed you as you don’t have to consciously cover up for this lapse, this prevents a lot of gaps in your original behavior pattern thereby improving your effectiveness to think logically and clearly in the present moment. This also helps you to start focusing on factors within your control, and without even knowing about it you start falling in line with the universal intelligence by following its chosen pathways, these path ways are very strong as these are based on the universal eternal truths and have the power to help you accomplish big goals thereby taking your confidence to the next level.  You are prevented from acting under the modes of passion and/or ignorance, there by preserving your innate drive to take appropriate action, as appropriately conditioned by the nature. Contrary to the people who compromise on the divine virtue of truthfulness you would not try to consciously manipulate the impulses of nature and that too with poor efficiency and unexpected consequences, as the natural intelligence comes up with even stronger pathways which are totally out of your control. Thus you move into the realm of a world which gels with your understanding, thereby improving your confidence level.

2.People Start Believing Your Personal Integrity

The second level is at the level of your relationships both at the intimate, personal & professional levels as well as the socially dispersed levels. The people known to you in various capacities, as and when they come across instances where you have followed this divine virtue of truthfulness, they start believing your personal integrity with the confidential information that they may be planning to share with you in the course of your relationship. This is more supportive when there are multiple recurrences and/or multiple social reference points where this can be vouched for its validity. This scenario favorably impacts the perception of these people regarding you and finally they start drifting closer to you, as their sense of comfort and trust keeps improving, finally reaching a point where your trust worthiness increases to a very high plane, this is the level at which most of your relationships are in a good shape and these can eventually become great in the coming times.   

  

3.You Enjoy Pleasant Consequences

At the third level, whatever efforts you make to follow this divine virtue of truthfulness, these get recorded with the natural intelligence as compliance with the universal eternal truths, thereby qualifying you for the positive consequences of your own actions. When you follow the divine virtue of truthfulness, you become the first witness of your action but remember that you are not the only witness, as your actions get imprinted on the moment which is a witness of your good deed and all the living as well as non living entities too gather this impression that you are complying with the universal eternal truths, but in the heart of your hearts you know that you have followed the divine virtue of truthfulness ,this fact is also known to the universal intelligence and it works hard to ensure that you get to enjoy the pleasant consequences of your actions thereby further improving your confidence.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Calm Posture – A Divine Virtue

This Divine Virtue Leads to Manifesting Other Divine Virtues

You realize the importance of a calm posture better, when you experience a situation marked by its absence in your persona. When you are devoid of this grace, you tend to lose sight of your goals, purpose, values, and priorities in your life. The absence of this divine virtue drags you into


  unnecessary exchanges with others and you generally end up in the middle of great unanticipated problems by distorting your logical frame of reference through a biased paradigm shift at your subconscious level, without your realizing that all this is actually happening with you. In other words the modes of ignorance and/or passion cast their spell on you, as soon as you step out of the realms of this or any other divine virtue, and you get carried away by the illusion called Maya. The presence of this divine virtue plays a very critical role in keeping you on the right track thereby creating an environment conducive to the manifestation of all other divine virtues   responsible for your holistic growth towards realizing the potential of being at your best.

Compromising on Divine Virtues Trigger a Cascade of Further Compromises

Consider a situation where you experience anxiety or fear, this is the time when you lose your calm , now whatever decisions you take will not be based on the solid background of eternal universal truths but will be guided by the motive of overcoming the anxiety or fear prevailing at that point in time. The similar understanding can be developed for the other divine virtues as well. It is worth noting that any compromise on even one divine virtue can push you into a cascade of events resulting in situations where further compromises on other divine virtues are triggered without much effort on your part.

Why Crimes Happen In Our Society?

Consider a situation where you had some argument with your spouse or friend before you moved out in your car, if you get affected by this and carry the disturbing negativity of the resultant frustration and anger with you, there is a very high possibility that even the slightest provocation by any person, event or situation will make you reactby exhibiting the same behavior of frustration and anger. This is the major reason why most of the crimes happen in our society. When we compromise on the divine virtues we unconsciously let the ignorance and/or passion take control of our beings and we begin to slide on the downward spiral of anger, lust, greed, frustration, jealousy, fear hatred, enmity, etc.  On the contrary when we block the access of ignorance and passion, by following divine virtues in totality by forming the habit of living by these divine virtues, we not only maintain our calm but also pave way to a more significant, vibrant, fulfilling & happy life.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Raise Yourself to Achieve Your Desires

Genuine Happiness in the Success of others is the Mark of Abundance Mentality

You get what you deserve in life because of your own actions, talents, focus, preparation & the blessings of God. There is enough for everyone deserving and there is no shortage of any type. The point here is to raise


 yourself to a level where you become worthy of achieving the possession of material objects you desire and not by feeling jealous of other people. When you feel jealous of others, you block your own progress by creating these three problems, for yourself, with far reaching consequences

 1st Problem; You challenge & disapprove the decision of, the universal intelligence

You challenge & disapprove the decision of, the universal intelligence or the supernatural force, God to have given the possession of material objects to the people it considered worthy candidates to be bestowed with the material possessions desired by them

     2nd Problem; You Unknowingly Construct Your Own Reality of Scarcity
     You unknowingly construct your own reality of scarcity with the underlying assumption, contrary to the reality, that if others have got the possession of the material possessions desired by them then there is not much left for you in the universal kitty

     3rd Problem; You Lose Sight and Focus, of the Opportunity to Improve Yourself   
     You lose sight and focus, of the opportunity to improve yourself by failing to evaluate the deficiency of divine virtues in yourself  and ,of inculcating these virtues to realize your potential to achieve the rating of 10 on 10 , thereby becoming a worthy candidate for the universal intelligence or the supernatural force, God to give you the possession of the desired material objects

Have Faith, there is No Limit to What You Can Get With Abundance Mentality 

Once you get connected to the universal intelligence there is no limit to what you can get with the abundance mentality.It is like tuning into the frequency of your favorite Television Channel and there is no limit to the programs that you can watch, off course subject to the continued tuning in that particular frequency and the continued connectivity or the focus in case of your abundance mentality, by tuning yourself into the universal intelligence , you create the reflection of your desired material possession in the universal intelligence and then that same material possession is handed over to you in reality by the universal intelligence. But only abundance mentality will not help , what you really need is the perfect blend of all the divine virtues including abundance mentality to score 10 on 10 to accomplish the ideal scenario by following the universal eternal truths.

God Bless

Success N Synergy