Getting Rid of Suicide, Murder and Crime

Every Other Day You Hear About Such Instances  

A Man Committing Suicide

In your day to day experiences , a lot of instances come to your observation as these events occur around you. In the last few days there were  three stories, highlighted in the news, related to the stuff we are
discussing here.

•  1st story - A lady, mother of two, committed suicide by jumped out of the fifth floor , following a tiff with her husband.
• 2nd story - A husband connived with his lady friend , outside his marriage, to

 mastermind the kidnapping & gruesome murder of his wife

• 3rd story - A man was brutally beaten to death by a group of people led by his neighbor in front of his own house, over arguments related to the car parking.

Can You Do Something about this Problem?

You  may have no clue regarding the reasons for these occurrences , as you hear about these events, very rarely do you feel or think that this may happen to you any time in life.

You Must Be Part of the Solution

Yes you are right , the occurrence of such events can be expressed in terms of probability. For different people there are different probabilities , that they would be a part of any such occurrence in their lives. Obviously there are two broad categories of factors, one category having positive correlation with the probability of occurrence and the other category having negative correlation with this probability, that such an event would occur in your life. With this background it is essential for every individual to have knowledge regarding emotional intelligence.

Minimize the Risk by Acquiring & Disseminating this Knowledge

Everybody thinks that this is all about other people and no such thing can ever happen to them. The fact to be understood here is the two categories of factors having correlation with the occurrence of such instances.

Acquire Knowledge

You would agree that if it is possible to minimize the probability of such events in your life by

1. Understanding the two categories of factors 
2. Focusing on factors responsible for prevention of these events and
3. Deliberately avoiding falling victim to the factors responsible for promoting these events

there is no harm in acquiring this peace of knowledge.In fact it makes great sense to acquire this knowledge and reduce the risk, of getting affected by these negative emotions, hovering over your head because the probability for the statistical universe as a whole includes you as well. You should not stop at the knowledge acquisition stage only, but must also ensure that most of the people known to you get exposed to this knowledge for gaining the power of correct living to improve their own lives as well as the entire society.

God Bless

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Esprit de Corpse- In Union there is Strength

Lord Rama With Lord Hanuman

When Your Team doesn't Buy Your Values

Leadership and teamwork are critical to the success of any management endeavor. This is more true today than could have been at any other time. When your team members are not in line with your values and are not convinced about the objective you want to accomplish, this is a clear indication of


 the fact that the vital management principle of "Esprit de Corpse- In Union there is Strength", is missing. Such a huge gap with in the team , shall be nothing less than fatal if this anomaly doesn't  get rectified , till it is still with in the elastic limits of regaining its desired strong position. 

This concept was true in the times as early as the period where Lord Rama , incarnation of Lord Vishnu, lived on this earth in the human form. The epic which narrates the story pertaining to the birth and life of Lord Rama is known as Ramayana.

Expertise , Dedication , Dexterity & Commitment are exhibited due to Employee Motivation

Ravana Kidnapping Goddess Sita

 There is an episode in Ramayana , where Goddess Sita, the Wife of Lord Rama is forcibly kidnapped by a demon, King of Lanka, called Ravana
  and Lord Hanuman goes, out in search of Goddess Sita, to the kingdom of Ravana , the Lanka. When Lord Hanuman tries to enter the fortress of Lanka, there is a lady demon guard, by the name Lankini, at the entrance. Lankini is responsible for the security of the entry  gate which Lord Hanuman tries to enter , there is opposition from Lankini, whom Lord Hanuman hits with a fist, because of which she starts bleeding and falls to the ground. Then she gets up, on gathering her senses and tells Lord Hanuman that Lord Brahma had given her a boon that when she is overpowered by a monkey then she should know that the end of all the demons is very close at hand. She expresses her gratitude towards Lord Hanuman that he had personally come there and blessed her with his divine presence. This is the time, she drops all resistance and Lord Hanuman slips through that gate of the fortress into Lanka. The point to be noted here is that when she stops Lord Hanuman, he is of the size of a mosquito ,such was her expertise , dedication , dexterity and level of commitment to her job of guarding the gate,that not even a mosquito could enter the restricted area.

Organization Unity was Broken and Security of Lanka was Compromised  

Lankini surrenders to Lord Hanuman and goes against her leader, Ravana by

• Allowing Lord Hanuman, unauthorized entry into Lanka
• Not communicating about this event to Ravana and others responsible for the security of Lanka 

because Lankini was convinced in her heart that the act of Ravana, to kidnap Goddess Sita was incorrect and Lankini could no longer buy into the the wrong values followed by Ravana. This turned out to be a very important event, finally resulting into the defeat of Ravana.

Lankini's Motivation Declines as she Realizes that  Ravana's Cause was Unjust

View of Fortress Lanka 

Now she herself had allowed Lord Hanuman to enter the fortress and that too without raising any alarm or sending any warning signals to her other team members. So we can see that there is a shift from the earlier loyal and dedicated behavior of guarding the fortress to that of surrender to the enemy entering the fort. This shift came about, with her realizing that what her King Ravana was doing was unjust and she was convinced that Lord Hanuman was on the right side.Therefore despite the fact that she was officially responsible for guarding the gate, she still doesn't comply with the official requirement.

 

How this Relates to Modern Management ?

This in other words means total failure of the security system of Lanka, and this happened just because the basic management principle ,   Esprit de Corpse- In Union there is Strength, got compromised. This also means that

• Strength of the chain is its weakest link
• Any leader/ manager who has to manage a team must have her/his team believe in the basic values for which the leader and the organization stand.

  

  Strength of the chain is its weakest link

• Only authority can be delegated, but responsibility cannot be delegated to the lower levels. Team members share the responsibility , when they internally feel this obligation, as they strongly feel that the values lived by the management of the organization are correct.
• Even today when the top management of any organization engages itself into activities, which are perceived as incorrect by the people down below and even if only one member of the organization compromises his/her role due to this realization, then the complete organization is exposed to the risks, with the fatal consequences, unknown and unexpected by the top management.

Successful People Use Emotional Intelligence to their Advantage

It Is Essential To Also Know That Ignorance Is Not Bliss

Acquire Knowledge Regarding Emotional Intelligence

It is important for you to know that you are responsible for what  you do. Most of the time many people act without this self realization, which dawns on them only when they are actually facing the consequences of their actions. Therefore it is essential to also know that


 ignorance is not bliss but it can lead you into unexpected zones, which may not be very pleasant. Approach knowledge centers and professionals with knowledge , read relevant books to acquire the knowledge you need but do not cut a sorry figure in the end saying that you did not know about the theory of action and consequences.

 Three Stages of Action

Think about the possible consequences of your action before embarking

You do not even know who all are affected by your actions and how these actions come back to you in the form of consequences of these actions. So the golden rule is to seek wisdom from any authentic source and use your own judgment to think about the possible consequences of the action that you want to take. There are three stages in which action is taken by you, the first stage is when you direct your thought towards the objective you wish to accomplish and then look at the alternative courses of actions which can help you in achieving that particular objective, the second stage is when you evaluate all these possible options on the basis of the most likely outcome each one of them is going to produce once implemented, and the third stage is to implement the chosen option on the basis of the most likely outcome that would be achieved.

Emotional Intelligence Can Be Developed

The irony is that most people , most of the time jump to the third stage without considering the first two       stages, and they implement the action of the third stage still going just the action way without thinking about

Learn the right way to take the right action

the consequences of that action, the most likely outcome of that action. The point to be noted here is not that the people jumping to the third stage do not actually jump to the third stage but they lack awareness of the existence of the first two stages. Thus , what is important here is that these people need to get educated about making the correct and proper use of choosing the right action. And the people who have only action orientation without any regard to the consequences, completely lack knowledge about this decision process when taking action. These people are lacking in emotional intelligence, which can be developed through gaining self awareness and  by getting trained to the right way to go about taking action, with a clear focus on the consequences

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Successful People Use Emotional Intelligence to Their Advantage

If you happen to analyze a few successful people as well as a few not so successful people, you would find that the successful people are using their emotional intelligence to their advantage , whereas the not so

successful people have not been able to take advantage of this natural endowment,called emotional intelligence, lying dominant inside them. The irony continues beyond this point in the form of people failing to ascertain the consequences of their actions and taking such actions involving breach of the law or causing irreversible damage to their lives and careers by getting involved in actions with far reaching consequences sometimes leading them to severe legal penalties and imprisonment. All this happens because they lack,emotional intelligence,the awareness of the consequences of their actions.

Take The Right Action Towards Leading a Happy And Fulfilling Life

The difference lies in exposing a very large number of people to the awareness and training for developing their emotional intelligence because this can act as the one timely stitch which can save nine. At times , it can prevent most of the unwanted situations from the lives of most of the people. The challenge is to rate yourself on the development and application of emotional intelligence , this exercise may prompt you to take the right action towards leading  a happy and fulfilling life by developing your emotional intelligence.

God Bless

Success N Synergy  

  

Achieving Personal Effectiveness through Emotional Intelligence

Choose & Act on the Most Appropriate Thoughts

Achieving effectiveness is governed by very simple thought processes. It is like choosing and acting on the most appropriate thoughts. At times you need to consciously generate these thoughts till they become


a very natural habit to you. For instance if you wish to be a good public speaker , you must learn the principles governing the discipline of public speaking, once you know these principles , you must practice them regularly, so that these principles are relegated to your memory. Now as and when an opportunity of public speaking presents itself, you must hold it and show case your talent.

The Power of Directing Thought towards Goals

The fact could be that you are scared of public speaking, but the moment you take off your mind from the thought of fearing this activity and place it on the track of learning about public speaking and practicing it. You open a world of opportunities in public speaking, this is the power of directing your thought towards anything you want to achieve.

Effectiveness is a Function of Thought at Will & Discipline

The same phenomenon is true for achieving effectiveness by focusing your thought on time management, physical fitness level, body language, communication skills, emotional intelligence, etc. therefore achieving effectiveness in any area of your life is a function of you being able to focus your mind at will on the chosen activity and the discipline to carry out the activity in line with the prescribed knowledgetenets.

Balancing Act between the Heart & the Mind

When it comes to the ability to generate thoughts at will, we are essentially dealing with the faculty of emotional intelligence. This aspect of your personality performs a balancing act between the heart & the mind, or the feelings & the logic. So having the control regarding your decision, to give precedence to feelings over logic or the other way round , would determine your success and failure achieved in life.

Emotional Intelligence - The Recipe for Success

Thus knowing that although you may be very thirsty but with the limited amount of water available to be shared with a large number of people, may make you control your desire to completely quench your thirst by taking only limited quantity of water to ensure that others present there must also get their limited share. This control over the physiological demand of the body for immediate gratification by deferring the satisfaction to a later time because of some overriding consideration for others and the etiquette you need to follow in a particular situation can be categorized as a behavior emanating from emotional intelligence. Thus setting your thoughts on the right track and backing them up with the right action is the recipe for success.

Channelize Your Energy for Achieving Better & Bigger Results

Sometimes we indulge into thought processes & related action, impacting us in the short, medium or long run, but so far as these are guided by our internal voice, they would always bring us direct fruits of our actions. This is similar to keeping on the right track, always, irrespective of what is happening around us or what is being done to us by others. Such mastery would evolve your inner strength and you would be able to channelize your energy for achieving better and bigger results in your chosen vocation.

The Rare Combination of Success, Happiness & Fulfillment

Thus, achieving effectiveness in a nut shell is a result of achieving the capability of controlling thought at will, knowing the right sources of knowledge, learning from them, practicing the art of self discipline, These work well to get you the rare combination of success, happiness & fulfillment, when you live the universal eternal truths and the divine virtuesalong with developing your internal voice as well as the, art of balancing logic and feelings called, emotional intelligence.

    God Bless

Success N Synergy

Success Mantra – Develop Emotional Intelligence by Channelizing Your Positive Energy

Strengthen Your Internal Voice

When you notice that your own hand is betraying your trust, you must know that most probably you have landed into the state of total or partial paralysis. By your hand what we mean here is someone, whom you

trust like your own-self and if this person betrays you, in such a situation 

you are left with just two options. The first, and the undesirable, one is get into an open confrontation with this person and the second option is to realize the futility of such worldly relationships, as the one you had with the person who betrayed your trust. You can exercise this second option of handling the set back by conserving your energy, and consolidating your internal voice. You must also treat this as a signal from the supernatural, of the fact that such dependencies, for drawing any emotional support, on any person or material object can never be a relief in the wake of the challenges facing you. The only source of real & lasting happiness can be found in living the eternal truths, as these are never changing and their validity pervades the realms of time and space.

Any Stranger Could Have Not Been Chosen by the Super Natural to Inflict This Misery on You

It is worthwhile to note here that the pain of betrayal can be inflicted on you only by people whom you trust, so there is no point in blaming and cursing them because any stranger could have not been used by the super natural to plan the infliction of this misery on you, more over the pain experienced by you is only the result of your own past actions or karma, but one thing is for sure that the person who betrayed you, did so under the illusion created by ignorance or passion , and has definitely neither understood life nor the role played by personal leadership, emotional intelligence and the invaluable internal support in achieving long lasting happiness & fulfillment. This person is no different than others and has acted with the objective of achieving happiness, but did not know the working of Maya or illusion, thereby getting trapped into its clutches. So such a person needs a lot of sympathy and best wishes to break free from the strong hold of Maya or illusion, and needs your support to overcome this handicap. Such an approach of helping this person, although, shall go a long way in developing your leadership potential and emotional intelligence reservoir, very much needed to achieve lasting peace and happiness in your life.

Intent of the Supernatural Is To Make You Emotionally Stronger

Once this realization dawns on you, utmost care must be taken to ensure that you stop depending upon such people, because so long as you continue to depend upon them, you are most likely to re-experience the similar paralytic condition in your life, with the only exception of depending on the super natural to be a non deplete-able reservoir of emotional support and wisdom. In case of any such eventuality, when you are pushed into a situation of immense unbearable pain, apart from the stated learning, the intent of the supernatural is to make you emotionally stronger because the super natural wants you to become strong enough for handling the difficult stuff specifically meant to be handled by you.

Either You Break Under Pressure or You Develop Your Emotional Intelligence

At any given time you should be thankful to such people who play a major role in the design of the supernatural by having an inappropriate behavior towards you. This inappropriate behavior can range from cheating you, breaking your trust, lying to you, being rude to you, thinking and wishing bad for you, feeling jealous of you, etc. When a person displays such negative emotions against you, you have a cause to celebrate that you have arrived and these people are laying a testing ground as an examination to qualify or disqualify you against these odds. The result of this test is measured by a simple yardstick - weather you break under these pressures by retaliating against these provocations or you develop your emotional intelligence by applying restraint, for maintaining a cool head under all kinds of circumstances and not forgetting your etiquette of consideration and respect towards others as also living the core philosophy underlined by the universal eternal truths and the divine or the right virtues

Build Proactive Emotional Muscle to Achieve the Success You Truly Deserve

You must also understand that the supernatural power needs people with high emotional maturity to take on very critical tasks, having no margin for error of any type, which require a very strong person to handle it. Therefore the degree of your emotional maturity is tested by giving you the situations with varying intensities of emotional turbulence, the idea is to see whether you get qualified or disqualified for bigger and more stringent examinations, hence there is a difference between the levels of success achieved by you as described by your capacity to withstand pressures and emotionally testing times without succumbing to them, on the contrary if you break out of the discipline prescribed by the universal eternal truths and the divine virtues, you stagnate at that particular level of incompetence till you are able to build your proactive emotional muscle to qualify for the success truly deserved by you. Therefore if you develop the capability to channelize all your negative experiences as a positive input to fuel your growth, then you would have mastered yourself and would be the most eligible & deserving person for achieving success, happiness & fulfillment in your life.

God Bless Success N Synergy

Your First Step towards Personal Leadership

Be Ever Ready To Accept Your Mistake

Mistake is the action taken under the impression that you are doing the right thing, therefore innocence or ignorance is the underlying cause of any mistake. Then the right strategy should be to get rid of 

ignorance by getting educated, and innocence can be countered by being aware of the fact that although you may think something to be correct, due to lack of wisdom or information regarding that subject, but it is still possible for you to discover at a later stage that you were not right. Thus possessing the humility of being open, to accept such realities and learn from them is the first step towards personal leadership and growth.

It calls for a great deal of humility to be ever ready to accept your mistake, where you may have no awareness of this fact, till such time this reality is brought to your notice through some external factors or it dawns on you through your intrinsic realization that you were not right when you acted under the illusion of it being right.

Know the Causes of Illusions

If you look around yourself you would recognize that there are infinite factors responsible for even the simplest of the outcome to happen. No we are not discussing the theory of probability, but even more interestingly the underlying causes or the factors leading to the illusions owing to the imperfect human sensory perception and Maya, responsible for decoding these events as they do it. The Maya or illusion coupled with your ego is the main reason for such occurrences. Time and again the scientific discoveries have revealed that our senses are imperfect and so is our understanding & interpretation of the events happening around us. Thus we see that different people, with different levels of perception, viewing the same distant object. Each of them will be 100% confident of their individual perception, but the fact could be that none of them may be right. The factors responsible for such variations could be better explained by plotting their differing individual concentration spans, selective distortion, language barriers, intellectual capabilities, personal biases, education, aptitude, aspirations, conditioning and motivation.

Your Perception Is the Reflection of Your Real Self

Your perception regarding the external world is the reflection of your true self and converse of this is also true as whatever perception you hold of the external world, gets manifested inside you, this is the power of law of attraction. Therefore it is said that when you criticize others you tend to carry and develop their negative attributes inside you and the same is true for the praise offered by you to others, but the point to be noted is that you must refrain from criticizing others and you must be genuinely sincere in your praise, this must be heartfelt and in no way be flattery, targeted to please those involved.

Preempt Falling Prey to Illusion

Therefore you must understand that these differences emanate from the dynamic psychological as well as the ever changing physiological conditioning based on differing levels of socio-cultural, socio-economic, socio-demographic and socio-political exposure. As we have discussed earlier also that Maya drags us under the influence of passion and ignorance, and this is fueled by our false ego.  It is ironical to note that most of the time, the fears and worries influencing your life, as you live under the deplorable conditions, of stress & anxiety generated by them, are imaginary and unreal. This is the impact of Maya or illusion, and even the most intelligent & knowledgeable people cannot escape from its trap, such is the strength of this Maya or illusion. This is because your worldly intelligence & knowledge is grounded in the primary motive of acquiring material possessions and therefore the only way to preempt your falling prey to the designs of illusion or Maya is to follow the real wisdom emanating from the divine virtues by living the universal eternal truths, and by surrendering your ego to the super natural power or God

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Self Realization - A Big Challenge

Uphold Divine Virtues

Self realization is a big challenge, as you need to uphold all the divine virtues on a continuous basis in the wake of the ever increasing challenges facing you. In the external environment you have instant access to a

 lot of negativity without much effort and intention on your part. It is so easy to get victimized without even knowing that you are falling prey to the evil, the very glitter which attracts you towards itself and the craving for pride which lies inside you to become the master, the only owner, of this glittering matter. You want instant sense gratification and are willing to go to any extent to achieve these ends, with only one result, that comes back to you in many forms such as, devastation, misery, grief, broken relationships, pain and poor health.

Live In Harmony with Universal Eternal Truths

At the face of it, the attraction offered by the visible negativity is very intense. Only an understanding embedded with divine virtues, based on universal eternal truths can help you in applying the brakes, thereby generating a good enough friction to stop before getting engulfed in the fire of the glittering negativity. The solution is to live in harmony with universal eternal truths.

Choose Positive Options

  And whenever you have to take a decision, review and categorize the available options as either negative or positive. The options that can help you, live in harmony with universal eternal truths, can be identified with at least one or more of the divine virtues, these can be termed as positive while options which can take us away from the from the universal eternal truths and are a compromise on the divine virtues can be called negative. Whatever the provocation, without bothering about, what the world & the other people involved are doing, you must keep a constant check to ensure that you are on the right track. 

Seek Guidance From An Authentic Teacher

To build the diversions and speed breakers on the path of negativity, you must keep company of the person who lives by the divine virtues and you must also seek guidance from a qualified teacher, who can provide you the anchor to hold on whenever you tend to slip under the influence of negativity. Your complete devotion to the ideal of living by the divine virtues can uphold you even under most trying circumstances. When you know that living by the divine virtues keeps you aligned with the universal eternal truths, you do not have to get involved into the mad rat race as the universal intelligence provides for your genuine needs and requirements. You need to take immediate action for achieving happiness & fulfillment by knowing your true values in life.    

God Bless

Success N Synergy

How to Take Your Confidence to the Next Level?

Truthfulness a divine virtue

A lot of fads will come and go, but the basic ingredients of a confident and successful personality shall always remain the same. Truthfulness is one of the basic ingredients which can take your

 confidence to the next level. You will generally feel to be highly confident when you consistently follow the divine virtue of truthfulness.

When you live up to this divine virtue, you eliminate problems at these three levels

1.No Cover-up Required

The first level is your individual persona which doesn't get mired by the doubts hovering over your mind as you do not have to cover up for the compromise on this divine virtue, there will be no pressure created which could have derailed you as you don’t have to consciously cover up for this lapse, this prevents a lot of gaps in your original behavior pattern thereby improving your effectiveness to think logically and clearly in the present moment. This also helps you to start focusing on factors within your control, and without even knowing about it you start falling in line with the universal intelligence by following its chosen pathways, these path ways are very strong as these are based on the universal eternal truths and have the power to help you accomplish big goals thereby taking your confidence to the next level.  You are prevented from acting under the modes of passion and/or ignorance, there by preserving your innate drive to take appropriate action, as appropriately conditioned by the nature. Contrary to the people who compromise on the divine virtue of truthfulness you would not try to consciously manipulate the impulses of nature and that too with poor efficiency and unexpected consequences, as the natural intelligence comes up with even stronger pathways which are totally out of your control. Thus you move into the realm of a world which gels with your understanding, thereby improving your confidence level.

2.People Start Believing Your Personal Integrity

The second level is at the level of your relationships both at the intimate, personal & professional levels as well as the socially dispersed levels. The people known to you in various capacities, as and when they come across instances where you have followed this divine virtue of truthfulness, they start believing your personal integrity with the confidential information that they may be planning to share with you in the course of your relationship. This is more supportive when there are multiple recurrences and/or multiple social reference points where this can be vouched for its validity. This scenario favorably impacts the perception of these people regarding you and finally they start drifting closer to you, as their sense of comfort and trust keeps improving, finally reaching a point where your trust worthiness increases to a very high plane, this is the level at which most of your relationships are in a good shape and these can eventually become great in the coming times.   

  

3.You Enjoy Pleasant Consequences

At the third level, whatever efforts you make to follow this divine virtue of truthfulness, these get recorded with the natural intelligence as compliance with the universal eternal truths, thereby qualifying you for the positive consequences of your own actions. When you follow the divine virtue of truthfulness, you become the first witness of your action but remember that you are not the only witness, as your actions get imprinted on the moment which is a witness of your good deed and all the living as well as non living entities too gather this impression that you are complying with the universal eternal truths, but in the heart of your hearts you know that you have followed the divine virtue of truthfulness ,this fact is also known to the universal intelligence and it works hard to ensure that you get to enjoy the pleasant consequences of your actions thereby further improving your confidence.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Calm Posture – A Divine Virtue

This Divine Virtue Leads to Manifesting Other Divine Virtues

You realize the importance of a calm posture better, when you experience a situation marked by its absence in your persona. When you are devoid of this grace, you tend to lose sight of your goals, purpose, values, and priorities in your life. The absence of this divine virtue drags you into


  unnecessary exchanges with others and you generally end up in the middle of great unanticipated problems by distorting your logical frame of reference through a biased paradigm shift at your subconscious level, without your realizing that all this is actually happening with you. In other words the modes of ignorance and/or passion cast their spell on you, as soon as you step out of the realms of this or any other divine virtue, and you get carried away by the illusion called Maya. The presence of this divine virtue plays a very critical role in keeping you on the right track thereby creating an environment conducive to the manifestation of all other divine virtues   responsible for your holistic growth towards realizing the potential of being at your best.

Compromising on Divine Virtues Trigger a Cascade of Further Compromises

Consider a situation where you experience anxiety or fear, this is the time when you lose your calm , now whatever decisions you take will not be based on the solid background of eternal universal truths but will be guided by the motive of overcoming the anxiety or fear prevailing at that point in time. The similar understanding can be developed for the other divine virtues as well. It is worth noting that any compromise on even one divine virtue can push you into a cascade of events resulting in situations where further compromises on other divine virtues are triggered without much effort on your part.

Why Crimes Happen In Our Society?

Consider a situation where you had some argument with your spouse or friend before you moved out in your car, if you get affected by this and carry the disturbing negativity of the resultant frustration and anger with you, there is a very high possibility that even the slightest provocation by any person, event or situation will make you reactby exhibiting the same behavior of frustration and anger. This is the major reason why most of the crimes happen in our society. When we compromise on the divine virtues we unconsciously let the ignorance and/or passion take control of our beings and we begin to slide on the downward spiral of anger, lust, greed, frustration, jealousy, fear hatred, enmity, etc.  On the contrary when we block the access of ignorance and passion, by following divine virtues in totality by forming the habit of living by these divine virtues, we not only maintain our calm but also pave way to a more significant, vibrant, fulfilling & happy life.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Raise Yourself to Achieve Your Desires

Genuine Happiness in the Success of others is the Mark of Abundance Mentality

You get what you deserve in life because of your own actions, talents, focus, preparation & the blessings of God. There is enough for everyone deserving and there is no shortage of any type. The point here is to raise


 yourself to a level where you become worthy of achieving the possession of material objects you desire and not by feeling jealous of other people. When you feel jealous of others, you block your own progress by creating these three problems, for yourself, with far reaching consequences

 1st Problem; You challenge & disapprove the decision of, the universal intelligence

You challenge & disapprove the decision of, the universal intelligence or the supernatural force, God to have given the possession of material objects to the people it considered worthy candidates to be bestowed with the material possessions desired by them

     2nd Problem; You Unknowingly Construct Your Own Reality of Scarcity
     You unknowingly construct your own reality of scarcity with the underlying assumption, contrary to the reality, that if others have got the possession of the material possessions desired by them then there is not much left for you in the universal kitty

     3rd Problem; You Lose Sight and Focus, of the Opportunity to Improve Yourself   
     You lose sight and focus, of the opportunity to improve yourself by failing to evaluate the deficiency of divine virtues in yourself  and ,of inculcating these virtues to realize your potential to achieve the rating of 10 on 10 , thereby becoming a worthy candidate for the universal intelligence or the supernatural force, God to give you the possession of the desired material objects

Have Faith, there is No Limit to What You Can Get With Abundance Mentality 

Once you get connected to the universal intelligence there is no limit to what you can get with the abundance mentality.It is like tuning into the frequency of your favorite Television Channel and there is no limit to the programs that you can watch, off course subject to the continued tuning in that particular frequency and the continued connectivity or the focus in case of your abundance mentality, by tuning yourself into the universal intelligence , you create the reflection of your desired material possession in the universal intelligence and then that same material possession is handed over to you in reality by the universal intelligence. But only abundance mentality will not help , what you really need is the perfect blend of all the divine virtues including abundance mentality to score 10 on 10 to accomplish the ideal scenario by following the universal eternal truths.

God Bless

Success N Synergy

Freedom, from Jealousy & from Craving for Pride - A Divine Virtue

Freedom is an innate virtue, your state of fulfillment or otherwise depends upon whether this natural endowment is used or misused by you respectively. You can progress in the direction of

a fulfilling life only when you have the freedom from jealousy as well as the freedom from the craving for pride.

All Struggle in this World is the Result of the Craving for Pride;

Most of us generally believe that we are the real owners of our various material possessions in this world and take great pride in thinking that we are the factual owners of these material possessions, where as the fact is that these material possessions are in the ownership of God. All the struggle of most people in this world is the result of the craving for the false pride of staking the claim for the material possessions around them.

Jealousy if Allowed to Dominate Eats into the Feeling of Fulfillment;

When a hot object is placed near ice, the ice starts losing its form and it finally gets converted into  liquid, similarly Jealousy is a negative feeling which if allowed to dominate our being, it gradually grows stronger thus eating into the positive feeling of fulfillment and ultimately eradicating fulfillment completely from our lives. example, – when you get to know that another person has obtained the possession of some material object, which you also wish to have in your possession, then there are three different ways in which you can react to this event, the first and the most common way is to feel jealous of the other person, the second way could be, to be indifferent to such an event and the third way could be, to be feeling genuinely happy for the person that now possesses an object that would make him or her happy, this kind of disposition is the mark of an abundance mentality, which states that there is enough for everyone deserving and there is no shortage of any type, meaning it is not a zero sum game , where the gain of one person is necessarily the loss of another person.

To be able to experience fulfillment, the third way, marked with abundance mentality, when followed naturally by you, will be an indication that you are progressing on the right path to fulfillment. The fact of life is that each living being has to die some day or the other and we are no exceptions. Whatever deeds, divine or evil, a person does to acquire the possession of the material objects, has to face the consequences as a result of these deeds. After death there is no way the possession of these material objects can be retained by that particular person. Therefore there is no point in feeling jealous or craving for the false pride of possessing these material objects.

 

This Craving for False Pride is fueled by Passion and Ignorance;

Your reaction to any situation is governed by the dominating mode of your being, which may be exhibited by your acting under the spell of either ignorance, passion or goodness.

Ignorance; Under the spell of ignorance you tend to neglect the universal eternal truths and their impact, you are just motivated by the present ,you are so deeply entrenched in the clutches of the present moment that all your thinking capabilities are short circuited to support the act you wish to pursue in the present moment. You tend to get swayed by the emotions prevailing at that point in time, there by blocking out your access to the complete reasoning and thinking process, which could have guided you in terms of the effect of the action that will be produced as consequences of your action, such a situation can be averted by developing emotional intelligence.

Passion; When over powered by your passion you deliberately focus on acquiring objects you passionately wish to own and are willing to forego all other things , by acting in such a way you knowingly compromise on the universal eternal truths and expose yourself to the long term sufferings to be produced as a result of your actions. The difference that action taken under passion has with that taken under ignorance is that while under passion you tend to ignore the universal eternal truths through your reasoning whereas under ignorance you lose your discerning capability and all your reasoning, logic and thinking powers are completely blocked. So your actions under the spell of passion are still a matter of choice whereas those under the spell of ignorance are totally disconnected from your thinking reality in terms of the consequences arising out of your actions. 

 Acting in Goodness Gives Freedom from Jealousy as well as Craving for False Pride; 

Goodness; While in goodness you are equally concerned about the people around you and your behavior at all times is guided by the intent of not offending others through your actions, thus you see that the complete norms of etiquette flowing from this thought in different cultures and civilizations, where others, their respect and comfort are placed before the objective of self aggrandizement

Freedom if misused can take you away from the things you want to achieve, by leading you into the wrong direction, whereas its correct use can propel you to great heights and you can program yourself to achieve the things you desire in life

Knowing that you are, were or will only be a caretaker of the material possessions in your control, and the only owner is God, your craving for the false pride of owning the material objects will sublimate paving way to the attitude of leading a righteous life by following the universal eternal natural truths and imbibing the divine virtues in your life.

God Bless

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Fearlessness – A Divine Virtue

Why Fearlessness is considered a divine virtue? There are numerous reasons because of its two way action both as a cause and


an effect of many other divine virtues. Fearlessness is the result of righteous living, and also leads to righteous living.

Fear- An Effect of compromising on the Universal Eternal Truths;

There is an internal voice that gives you a warning signal whenever you initiate some action which is in contravention to the universal eternal truths, if you ignore this warning and go ahead with your action, then the internal voice gives you another warning signal, the strength of this signal is stronger than the previous warning signal, if you ignore even this stronger warning signal then the next time you again compromise on universal eternal truths, this warning signal becomes even stronger. And with each subsequent action compromising the universal eternal truths the strength of this warning signal keeps on increasing till a point is reached where the complete sensitivity to the warning signal is lost due to the conditioning of the senses responsible for perceiving the signal, this gradually takes the shape of a deep rooted fear and in your subconscious you get conditioned to this fear, as it becomes a part and parcel of your being, thereby making you devoid of the divine virtue, fearlessness.

Conditioning to the Fear Nurtures a Distorted Paradigm;

Fear is the feeling emanating from the thoughts of a possibility, real or unreal, of going through an unpleasant experience, where in you may fear the loss of health, beauty, job or some other valuable possession. Your conditioning to the fear brings with it the emergence of a distorted paradigm through which you start viewing the world. This is the reason why certain specific people perceive things in their own specific ways, in line with their conditioned approaches. And with the passage of time you realize that you are carrying various fears with you, as soon as you become aware of these fears you desperately try to get rid of them, but by now these fears are so deeply embedded in your being that these superficial attempts fail to get you any relief.

How to get rid of these fears?;

To get rid of these fears and achieve the divine virtue of fearlessness you need to unwind and peel off layer after layer till you are able to achieve your original state of fearlessness. This peeling off is done by identifying the specific universal truths compromised by you and taking a conscious stand to follow the universal eternal truths, this way you have to consciously monitor your thoughts and actions to ensure that they are in line with the universal eternal truths. These efforts would eventually bring to life the dead senses, which again start perceiving the warning signals of the inner voice, and gradually with the passage of time these become alive and stronger than ever, conditioned not to miss even a very feeble signal and that too without any conscious monitoring.

Know the Difference between Fearlessness and Ignorance

 A very important point to be noted here is that, fearlessness is the result of real time awareness of the fact that you are not violating any of the universal eternal truths and not the ignorance of the fact that you are violating one or more of the universal eternal truths, the latter state is referred to as living under the spell of ignorance and this can in no way be equated to the divine state of fearlessness. The virtue of fearlessness is the result of unwavering adherence to the universal eternal truths and it is also the inbuilt confidence that when you are living the universal eternal truths than you will be surely having the protection of the supernatural forces of nature, God.

Fearlessness- An Effect of Living the Universal Eternal Truths

You can stand up for your convictions only when you are fearless, because if you are under the grip of fear then your actions will be guided by the logic of obeying the fear and not your conviction of being righteous. Such a situation would again push you into actions which would in turn lead you into further consequences involving fear and the cycle would go on infinitely. Therefore if you want to live fearlessly it is advisable that you take a fresh view of your life and if at any time you find that you are afraid of something, you must ensure that you do a thorough analysis of the situation to understand which of the universal eternal truths are compromised by you. Such an approach will help you in deciding earlier on, about the specific areas in your life requiring immediate correction.  So using fear as an initial symptom of bigger deep rooted issues the divine virtue of fearlessness can be achieved and maintained on a continued basis.

God Bless

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