Sanjay V Sharma

Every Other Day Y ou Hear About Such Instances   A Man Committing Suicide In your day to day experiences , a lot of instances come to your observation as these events occur around you. In the last few days there were  three stories, highlighted in the news, related to the stuff we are discussing here.  1st story - A lady, mother of two, committed suicide by jumped out of the fifth floor , following a tiff with her husband. 2nd story - A husband connived with his lady friend , outside his marriage, to  mastermind the kidnapping & gruesome murder of his wife 3rd story - A man was brutally beaten to death by a group of people led by his neighbor in front of his own house, over arguments related to the car parking. Can You Do Something about this Problem? You  may have no clue regarding the reasons for these occurrences , as you hear about these events, very rarely do you feel or think that this may happen to you any time in life. You Must Be Part of the Solutio...

Lord Rama With Lord Hanuman When Your Team doesn't Buy Your Values Leadership and teamwork are critical to the success of any management endeavor. This is more true today than could have been at any other time. When your team members are not in line with your values and are not convinced about the objective you want to accomplish, this is a clear indication of  the fact that the vital management principle of "Esprit de Corpse- In Union there is Strength" , is missing. Such a huge gap with in the team , shall be nothing less than fatal if this anomaly doesn't  get rectified , till it is still with in the elastic limits of regaining its desired strong position.  This concept was true in the times as early as the period where Lord Rama , incarnation of Lord Vishnu, lived on this earth in the human form. The epic which narrates the story pertaining to the birth and life of Lord Rama is known as Ramayana. Expertise , Dedication , Dexterity & Commitment are exhibited ...

It Is Essential To Also Know That Ignorance Is Not Bliss Acquire Knowledge Regarding Emotional Intelligence It is important for you to know that you are responsible for what  you do. Most of the time many people act  without this  self realization , which dawns on them only when they are actually facing the consequences of their actions. Therefore it is essential to also know that   ignorance  is not bliss but it can lead you into unexpected zones, which may not be very pleasant. Approach knowledge centers and professionals with knowledge , read relevant books to acquire the  knowledge  you need but do not cut a sorry figure in the end saying that you did not know about the theory of action and consequences.  Three Stages of Action Think about the possible consequences of your action before embarking You do not even know who all are affected by your actions and how these actions come back to you in the form of consequences of these actions. So th...

Choose & Act on the Most Appropriate Thoughts Achieving effectiveness is governed by very simple thought processes. It is like choosing and acting on the most appropriate thoughts . At times you need to consciously generate these thoughts till they become a very natural habit to you. For instance if you wish to be a good public speaker , you must learn the principles governing the discipline of public speaking, once you know these principles , you must practice them regularly, so that these principles are relegated to your memory. Now as and when an opportunity of public speaking presents itself, you must hold it and show case your talent . The Power of Directing Thought towards Goals The fact could be that you are scared of public speaking, but the moment you take off your mind from the thought of fearing this activity and place it on the track of learning about public speaking and practicing it. You open a world of opportunities in public speaking, this is the power of directing...

Strengthen Your Internal Voice When you notice that your own hand is betraying your trust, you must know that most probably you have landed into the state of total or partial paralysis. By your hand what we mean here is someone, whom you trust like your own-self and if this person betrays you, in such a situation  you are left with just two options. The first, and the undesirable, one is get into an open confrontation with this person and the second option is to realize the futility of such worldly relationships, as the one you had with the person who betrayed your trust. You can exercise this second option of handling the set back by conserving your energy , and consolidating your internal voice . You must also treat this as a signal from the supernatural, of the fact that such dependencies, for drawing any emotional support, on any person or material object can never be a relief in the wake of the challenges facing you. The only source of real & lasting happiness can be found...

Be Ever Ready To Accept Your Mistake Mistake is the action taken under the impression that you are doing the right thing, therefore innocence or ignorance is the underlying cause of any mistake. Then the right strategy should be to get rid of  ignorance by getting educated, and innocence can be countered by being aware of the fact that although you may think something to be correct, due to lack of wisdom  or information regarding that subject, but it is still possible for you to discover at a later stage that you were not right. Thus possessing the humility of being open, to accept such realities and learn from them is the first step towards personal leadership and growth. It calls for a great deal of humility to be ever ready to accept your mistake, where you may have no awareness of this fact, till such time this reality is brought to your notice through some external factors or it dawns on you through your intrinsic realization that you were not right when you acted und...

Uphold Divine Virtues Self realization is a big challenge, as you need to uphold all the divine virtues on a continuous basis in the wake of the ever increasing challenges facing you. In the external environment you have instant access to a  lot of negativity without much effort and intention on your part. It is so easy to get victimized without even knowing that you are falling prey to the evil, the very glitter which attracts you towards itself and the craving for pride which lies inside you to become the master, the only owner, of this glittering matter. You want instant sense gratification and are willing to go to any extent to achieve these ends, with only one result, that comes back to you in many forms such as, devastation, misery, grief, broken relationships, pain and poor health. Live In Harmony with Universal Eternal Truths At the face of it, the attraction offered by the visible negativity is very intense. Only an understanding embedded with divine v...

Truthfulness a divine virtue A lot of fads will come and go, but the basic ingredients of a confident and successful personality shall always remain the same. Truthfulness is one of the basic ingredients which can take your  confidence to the next level. You will generally feel to be highly confident when you consistently follow the divine virtue of truthfulness. When you live up to this divine virtue , you eliminate problems at these three levels 1.No Cover-up Required The first level is your individual persona which doesn't get mired by the doubts hovering over your mind as you do not have to cover up for the compromise on this divine virtue , there will be no pressure created which could have derailed you as you don’t have to consciously cover up for this lapse, this prevents a lot of gaps in your original behavior pattern thereby improving your effectiveness to think logically and clearly in the present moment. This also helps you to start focusing on factors within your cont...

This Divine Virtue Leads to Manifesting Other Divine Virtues You realize the importance of a calm posture better, when you experience a situation marked by its absence in your persona. When you are devoid of this grace, you tend to lose sight of your goals , purpose , values , and priorities in your life. The absence of this divine virtue drags you into    unnecessary exchanges with others and you generally end up in the middle of great unanticipated problems by distorting your logical frame of reference through a biased paradigm shift at your subconscious level, without your realizing that all this is actually happening with you. In other words the modes of ignorance and/or passion cast their spell on you, as soon as you step out of the realms of this or any other divine virtue, and you get carried away by the illusion called Maya. The presence of this divine virtue plays a very critical role in keeping you on the right track thereby creating an environment conducive to ...

Genuine Happiness in the Success of others is the Mark of Abundance Mentality You get what you deserve in life because of your own actions, talents, focus, preparation & the blessings of God. There is enough for everyone deserving and there is no shortage of any type. The point here is to raise  yourself to a level where you become worthy of achieving the possession of material objects you desire and not by feeling jealous of other people . When you feel jealous of others, you block your own progress by creating these three problems, for yourself, with far reaching consequences  1st Problem;   You challenge & disapprove the decision of, the universal intelligence You challenge & disapprove the decision of, the universal intelligence or the supernatural force, God to have given the possession of material objects to the people it considered worthy candidates to be bestowed with the material possessions desired by them       2nd Problem;   ...

Freedom is an innate virtue, your state of fulfillment or otherwise depends upon whether this natural endowment is used or misused by you respectively. You can progress in the direction of a fulfilling life only when you have the freedom from jealousy as well as the freedom from the craving for pride. All Struggle in this World is the Result of the Craving for Pride; Most of us generally believe that we are the real owners of our various material possessions in this world and take great pride in thinking that we are the factual owners of these material possessions, where as the fact is that these material possessions are in the ownership of God. All the struggle of most people in this world is the result of the craving for the false pride of staking the claim for the material possessions around them. Jealousy if Allowed to Dominate Eats into the Feeling of Fulfillment ; When a hot object is placed near ice, the ice starts losing its form and it finally gets converted into  liqui...

Why Fearlessness is considered a divine virtue ? There are numerous reasons because of its two way action both as a cause and an effect of many other divine virtues. Fearlessness is the result of righteous living , and also leads to righteous living. Fear- An Effect of compromising on the Universal Eternal Truths ; There is an internal voice that gives you a warning signal whenever you initiate some action which is in contravention to the universal eternal truths , if you ignore this warning and go ahead with your action, then the internal voice gives you another warning signal, the strength of this signal is stronger than the previous warning signal, if you ignore even this stronger warning signal then the next time you again compromise on universal eternal truths , this warning signal becomes even stronger. And with each subsequent action compromising the universal eternal truths the strength of this warning signal keeps on increasing till a point is reached where the complete sensi...